"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cold or Warm Approaches

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its a simple question....


do you guys approach when given positive signals or just approach cold?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I firmly believe that attraction can be created..yes I approach cold.

If she blows you away who cares ?
 
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bump...

I am actually going to be doing one of these method in real life...
 
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Well, like my old boss used to tell me about the subject of cold-calling....if you really know how to do it, it aint cold at all.

Hope that helps, haha.
 
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your definition of cold approach is what I described as a warm approach..

but what would you do if you got no smile from her....
would you still go up to her...

what would you do ?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yeah,

Lately becuase of the temporary condition of my hair ( shaved)..

usually some of the girls that don't notice me right out..

I have to kinda jump in their walking path, and say " how ya doing ? " or something to get their attention..

some will give a low interest response..those I usually don't give much thought..

but the others who do give more interest I try to start a convo.
 
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