Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Cold or Warm Approaches

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its a simple question....


do you guys approach when given positive signals or just approach cold?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I firmly believe that attraction can be created..yes I approach cold.

If she blows you away who cares ?
 
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bump...

I am actually going to be doing one of these method in real life...
 
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Well, like my old boss used to tell me about the subject of cold-calling....if you really know how to do it, it aint cold at all.

Hope that helps, haha.
 
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your definition of cold approach is what I described as a warm approach..

but what would you do if you got no smile from her....
would you still go up to her...

what would you do ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yeah,

Lately becuase of the temporary condition of my hair ( shaved)..

usually some of the girls that don't notice me right out..

I have to kinda jump in their walking path, and say " how ya doing ? " or something to get their attention..

some will give a low interest response..those I usually don't give much thought..

but the others who do give more interest I try to start a convo.
 
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