"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Cold or Warm Approaches

KnightRyder

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its a simple question....


do you guys approach when given positive signals or just approach cold?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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englishcrap

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I firmly believe that attraction can be created..yes I approach cold.

If she blows you away who cares ?
 

KnightRyder

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bump...

I am actually going to be doing one of these method in real life...
 

PVSSY-EATER

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Well, like my old boss used to tell me about the subject of cold-calling....if you really know how to do it, it aint cold at all.

Hope that helps, haha.
 

KnightRyder

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your definition of cold approach is what I described as a warm approach..

but what would you do if you got no smile from her....
would you still go up to her...

what would you do ?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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KnightRyder

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Yeah,

Lately becuase of the temporary condition of my hair ( shaved)..

usually some of the girls that don't notice me right out..

I have to kinda jump in their walking path, and say " how ya doing ? " or something to get their attention..

some will give a low interest response..those I usually don't give much thought..

but the others who do give more interest I try to start a convo.
 
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