"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Cold or Warm Approaches

KnightRyder

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its a simple question....


do you guys approach when given positive signals or just approach cold?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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englishcrap

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I firmly believe that attraction can be created..yes I approach cold.

If she blows you away who cares ?
 

KnightRyder

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bump...

I am actually going to be doing one of these method in real life...
 

PVSSY-EATER

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Well, like my old boss used to tell me about the subject of cold-calling....if you really know how to do it, it aint cold at all.

Hope that helps, haha.
 

KnightRyder

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your definition of cold approach is what I described as a warm approach..

but what would you do if you got no smile from her....
would you still go up to her...

what would you do ?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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KnightRyder

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Yeah,

Lately becuase of the temporary condition of my hair ( shaved)..

usually some of the girls that don't notice me right out..

I have to kinda jump in their walking path, and say " how ya doing ? " or something to get their attention..

some will give a low interest response..those I usually don't give much thought..

but the others who do give more interest I try to start a convo.
 
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