"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Cold approaches on campus

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Double J

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Do you guys regularly do cold approaches on campus? If so, how have they gone? I've done a few throughout my time in college thus far - some have led to great conversations and digits, and others have gone nowhere.

I often frequent HB hotspots on campus such as the cafeteria area and other patios to sit down and study or what not.. If a hot babe sits near, I try to lock eyes with her and eventually approach her. I've also gone up to them even if such eye contact isn't made, but the success rate for that isn't as great.

How have you guys' experiences been in college and what have you done in the past to be successful?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Double J
Do you guys regularly do cold approaches on campus? If so, how have they gone? I've done a few throughout my time in college thus far - some have led to great conversations and digits, and others have gone nowhere.

I often frequent HB hotspots on campus such as the cafeteria area and other patios to sit down and study or what not.. If a hot babe sits near, I try to lock eyes with her and eventually approach her. I've also gone up to them even if such eye contact isn't made, but the success rate for that isn't as great.

How have you guys' experiences been in college and what have you done in the past to be successful?
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how long do ECs between u and the girls usually last? I get a lot split second ECs. I wonder if they are any good
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sometimes I see a beautiful HB I have never seen before. I see that as a chance, no matter what the outcome. On the campus I go direct or play like I'm lost. In the library you can do great things with EC. I found that the trick is just to open them, most of them will love you for it. Sometimes however they are in a hurry or got some other sh*t to do. But who cares as long as you try you're true to yourself. You can only win.
 
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