"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Cold approaches on campus

Double J

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Do you guys regularly do cold approaches on campus? If so, how have they gone? I've done a few throughout my time in college thus far - some have led to great conversations and digits, and others have gone nowhere.

I often frequent HB hotspots on campus such as the cafeteria area and other patios to sit down and study or what not.. If a hot babe sits near, I try to lock eyes with her and eventually approach her. I've also gone up to them even if such eye contact isn't made, but the success rate for that isn't as great.

How have you guys' experiences been in college and what have you done in the past to be successful?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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david90

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Originally posted by Double J
Do you guys regularly do cold approaches on campus? If so, how have they gone? I've done a few throughout my time in college thus far - some have led to great conversations and digits, and others have gone nowhere.

I often frequent HB hotspots on campus such as the cafeteria area and other patios to sit down and study or what not.. If a hot babe sits near, I try to lock eyes with her and eventually approach her. I've also gone up to them even if such eye contact isn't made, but the success rate for that isn't as great.

How have you guys' experiences been in college and what have you done in the past to be successful?
how long do ECs between u and the girls usually last? I get a lot split second ECs. I wonder if they are any good
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SheepSter

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Sometimes I see a beautiful HB I have never seen before. I see that as a chance, no matter what the outcome. On the campus I go direct or play like I'm lost. In the library you can do great things with EC. I found that the trick is just to open them, most of them will love you for it. Sometimes however they are in a hurry or got some other sh*t to do. But who cares as long as you try you're true to yourself. You can only win.
 
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