"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Cold approaches on campus

Double J

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Do you guys regularly do cold approaches on campus? If so, how have they gone? I've done a few throughout my time in college thus far - some have led to great conversations and digits, and others have gone nowhere.

I often frequent HB hotspots on campus such as the cafeteria area and other patios to sit down and study or what not.. If a hot babe sits near, I try to lock eyes with her and eventually approach her. I've also gone up to them even if such eye contact isn't made, but the success rate for that isn't as great.

How have you guys' experiences been in college and what have you done in the past to be successful?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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david90

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Originally posted by Double J
Do you guys regularly do cold approaches on campus? If so, how have they gone? I've done a few throughout my time in college thus far - some have led to great conversations and digits, and others have gone nowhere.

I often frequent HB hotspots on campus such as the cafeteria area and other patios to sit down and study or what not.. If a hot babe sits near, I try to lock eyes with her and eventually approach her. I've also gone up to them even if such eye contact isn't made, but the success rate for that isn't as great.

How have you guys' experiences been in college and what have you done in the past to be successful?
how long do ECs between u and the girls usually last? I get a lot split second ECs. I wonder if they are any good
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SheepSter

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Sometimes I see a beautiful HB I have never seen before. I see that as a chance, no matter what the outcome. On the campus I go direct or play like I'm lost. In the library you can do great things with EC. I found that the trick is just to open them, most of them will love you for it. Sometimes however they are in a hurry or got some other sh*t to do. But who cares as long as you try you're true to yourself. You can only win.
 
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