I've gotten conflicting messages on this. I am at a very large, 40,000 and up population university. I've heard that you should not do cold approaches on campus because one screw up will mark you as that weird guy. Well, there are a ****-load of women here, and besides, I see a good amount of girls that I find attractive a number of times, walking to and from class and such. What's ur guys opinion? Should I go for it or not?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Cold approach on a large campus
- Thread starter kingofstl
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
No cold approach? Ef that homie look for eye contact, someone that's all ready interested. Dont go tap dancing around trying to make them interested when theres another all ready interested. Dont try to sell a freezer to eskimoes.
Think if a ugly girl came up to you and tried to change your mind by conversating, there would be nothing she could say to change your mind.
Women know if they wanna eff a guy in the first few seconds of seeing a guy so make it easy on your self and go after the ones who wanna eff you by using eye contact. Or any other obvious sign she's giving you.
If you work off eye contact that's like a 97 percent success rate, the other 3 accounts for cross eyed girls, girls with a man, and an anomaly.
Think if a ugly girl came up to you and tried to change your mind by conversating, there would be nothing she could say to change your mind.
Women know if they wanna eff a guy in the first few seconds of seeing a guy so make it easy on your self and go after the ones who wanna eff you by using eye contact. Or any other obvious sign she's giving you.
If you work off eye contact that's like a 97 percent success rate, the other 3 accounts for cross eyed girls, girls with a man, and an anomaly.
Thundernuts
Senior Don Juan
Dude, you are in a good spot. Just don't be the idiot running around asking for women to ****. Just play it cool and let them come to you. Just remember what your top priority is.
mr interesting
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well being on a large campus its so easy to meet girls, you dont even really have to do any cold approaches. You have beautiful women in your classes, clubs, social circles, etc. Opportunities all around you man!!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
Yep, eye contact is by the far the signal to strike (e.i. eye sex on the bus). All this means they like the package-not necessary they wanna get into dating you. Keep it cool and sexy.
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