I've gotten conflicting messages on this. I am at a very large, 40,000 and up population university. I've heard that you should not do cold approaches on campus because one screw up will mark you as that weird guy. Well, there are a ****-load of women here, and besides, I see a good amount of girls that I find attractive a number of times, walking to and from class and such. What's ur guys opinion? Should I go for it or not?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Cold approach on a large campus
- Thread starter kingofstl
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
No cold approach? Ef that homie look for eye contact, someone that's all ready interested. Dont go tap dancing around trying to make them interested when theres another all ready interested. Dont try to sell a freezer to eskimoes.
Think if a ugly girl came up to you and tried to change your mind by conversating, there would be nothing she could say to change your mind.
Women know if they wanna eff a guy in the first few seconds of seeing a guy so make it easy on your self and go after the ones who wanna eff you by using eye contact. Or any other obvious sign she's giving you.
If you work off eye contact that's like a 97 percent success rate, the other 3 accounts for cross eyed girls, girls with a man, and an anomaly.
Think if a ugly girl came up to you and tried to change your mind by conversating, there would be nothing she could say to change your mind.
Women know if they wanna eff a guy in the first few seconds of seeing a guy so make it easy on your self and go after the ones who wanna eff you by using eye contact. Or any other obvious sign she's giving you.
If you work off eye contact that's like a 97 percent success rate, the other 3 accounts for cross eyed girls, girls with a man, and an anomaly.
Thundernuts
Senior Don Juan
Dude, you are in a good spot. Just don't be the idiot running around asking for women to ****. Just play it cool and let them come to you. Just remember what your top priority is.
mr interesting
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well being on a large campus its so easy to meet girls, you dont even really have to do any cold approaches. You have beautiful women in your classes, clubs, social circles, etc. Opportunities all around you man!!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
Yep, eye contact is by the far the signal to strike (e.i. eye sex on the bus). All this means they like the package-not necessary they wanna get into dating you. Keep it cool and sexy.
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