I've gotten conflicting messages on this. I am at a very large, 40,000 and up population university. I've heard that you should not do cold approaches on campus because one screw up will mark you as that weird guy. Well, there are a ****-load of women here, and besides, I see a good amount of girls that I find attractive a number of times, walking to and from class and such. What's ur guys opinion? Should I go for it or not?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Cold approach on a large campus
- Thread starter kingofstl
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
No cold approach? Ef that homie look for eye contact, someone that's all ready interested. Dont go tap dancing around trying to make them interested when theres another all ready interested. Dont try to sell a freezer to eskimoes.
Think if a ugly girl came up to you and tried to change your mind by conversating, there would be nothing she could say to change your mind.
Women know if they wanna eff a guy in the first few seconds of seeing a guy so make it easy on your self and go after the ones who wanna eff you by using eye contact. Or any other obvious sign she's giving you.
If you work off eye contact that's like a 97 percent success rate, the other 3 accounts for cross eyed girls, girls with a man, and an anomaly.
Think if a ugly girl came up to you and tried to change your mind by conversating, there would be nothing she could say to change your mind.
Women know if they wanna eff a guy in the first few seconds of seeing a guy so make it easy on your self and go after the ones who wanna eff you by using eye contact. Or any other obvious sign she's giving you.
If you work off eye contact that's like a 97 percent success rate, the other 3 accounts for cross eyed girls, girls with a man, and an anomaly.
Thundernuts
Senior Don Juan
Dude, you are in a good spot. Just don't be the idiot running around asking for women to ****. Just play it cool and let them come to you. Just remember what your top priority is.
mr interesting
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well being on a large campus its so easy to meet girls, you dont even really have to do any cold approaches. You have beautiful women in your classes, clubs, social circles, etc. Opportunities all around you man!!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
Yep, eye contact is by the far the signal to strike (e.i. eye sex on the bus). All this means they like the package-not necessary they wanna get into dating you. Keep it cool and sexy.
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