I've gotten conflicting messages on this. I am at a very large, 40,000 and up population university. I've heard that you should not do cold approaches on campus because one screw up will mark you as that weird guy. Well, there are a ****-load of women here, and besides, I see a good amount of girls that I find attractive a number of times, walking to and from class and such. What's ur guys opinion? Should I go for it or not?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Cold approach on a large campus
- Thread starter kingofstl
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
No cold approach? Ef that homie look for eye contact, someone that's all ready interested. Dont go tap dancing around trying to make them interested when theres another all ready interested. Dont try to sell a freezer to eskimoes.
Think if a ugly girl came up to you and tried to change your mind by conversating, there would be nothing she could say to change your mind.
Women know if they wanna eff a guy in the first few seconds of seeing a guy so make it easy on your self and go after the ones who wanna eff you by using eye contact. Or any other obvious sign she's giving you.
If you work off eye contact that's like a 97 percent success rate, the other 3 accounts for cross eyed girls, girls with a man, and an anomaly.
Think if a ugly girl came up to you and tried to change your mind by conversating, there would be nothing she could say to change your mind.
Women know if they wanna eff a guy in the first few seconds of seeing a guy so make it easy on your self and go after the ones who wanna eff you by using eye contact. Or any other obvious sign she's giving you.
If you work off eye contact that's like a 97 percent success rate, the other 3 accounts for cross eyed girls, girls with a man, and an anomaly.
Thundernuts
Senior Don Juan
Dude, you are in a good spot. Just don't be the idiot running around asking for women to ****. Just play it cool and let them come to you. Just remember what your top priority is.
mr interesting
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well being on a large campus its so easy to meet girls, you dont even really have to do any cold approaches. You have beautiful women in your classes, clubs, social circles, etc. Opportunities all around you man!!
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
Yep, eye contact is by the far the signal to strike (e.i. eye sex on the bus). All this means they like the package-not necessary they wanna get into dating you. Keep it cool and sexy.
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