Indifference Kills
Don Juan
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Alot of articles and people on here talk about coffee/tea dates. You guys ever do any of this crap? It sounds like somthing for older guys/girls but i could be wrong.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Coffee Dates?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
shydude
Master Don Juan
You are kinda right! It is for older people, but girls like men that are mature!! If you will take a girl for a coffe instead McDonalds, trust me, she will think that you are THE MAN! Girls notice things more than men do, and taking her for a tea is really nice!! Plus i saw a lot of teenagers dating in the Dunkin Donuts. So taking her there would is awsome!! WHY?? 1) YOu can get to know her there 2) No morons that always make jokes about garbage like your ugly and **** 3) You will be different from all the other morons that take em to burger king 4) ITS cheap!!! 5) You can use kino on her!!!! 6) You will have fun!! And remember dont stay in the coffe shop for 4 hours!! Its a short date that lasts no longer than an hour!!
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
around here at least almost everyone drinks coffee, ecspecially girls. theres a lot of cozy little coffee shops around town and most will jump at the chance to grab a mochawhateverchinno with you. but be a man and go expresso :woo:
adpreston1988
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Do you think girls are more impressed by a guy that would go pedal boating with them instead of just going to see a movie?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
shydude
Master Don Juan
pedal boating
LOL~~~ its paddle boating~`unless ur From england!!
adpreston1988
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I thought it was paddle boating, until I got there with her and we both looked confused when we saw it was, "pedal boating". We had a really fun time though and I got her to lauph a lot.
pr0teus
Don Juan
Yes, go to McDonalds! When she sees your happy meal toy she's gonna put out in no time! That's why all the 13-year-olds hang out there and get pregnant because the schoolteachers are to embarrassed to talk contraception. Of course, you gotta give Ronald credit for the romantic atmosphere too.
Besides, it's unhealthy, and all the girls I know are too conscious of what they eat to even touch the mystery meat they have there. But then again that might be because this is Europe and not USA.
Besides, it's unhealthy, and all the girls I know are too conscious of what they eat to even touch the mystery meat they have there. But then again that might be because this is Europe and not USA.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
pr0teus
Don Juan
Coffee, while being pretty relaxed and casual, it's usually quiet enough for some convo, and if you find the right place it can be pretty well laid out for some kino as well. How about selecting one café to visit on a regular basis, not just with girls. That way you make it your own and it will make you more comfortable with the atmosphere.
Oh, and if you are lucky enough to live in continental Europe or North America you might not have to sell your body to afford two coffees and a couple of brownies. (Norway sucks)
Oh, and if you are lucky enough to live in continental Europe or North America you might not have to sell your body to afford two coffees and a couple of brownies. (Norway sucks)