Indifference Kills
Don Juan
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Alot of articles and people on here talk about coffee/tea dates. You guys ever do any of this crap? It sounds like somthing for older guys/girls but i could be wrong.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Coffee Dates?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
shydude
Master Don Juan
You are kinda right! It is for older people, but girls like men that are mature!! If you will take a girl for a coffe instead McDonalds, trust me, she will think that you are THE MAN! Girls notice things more than men do, and taking her for a tea is really nice!! Plus i saw a lot of teenagers dating in the Dunkin Donuts. So taking her there would is awsome!! WHY?? 1) YOu can get to know her there 2) No morons that always make jokes about garbage like your ugly and **** 3) You will be different from all the other morons that take em to burger king 4) ITS cheap!!! 5) You can use kino on her!!!! 6) You will have fun!! And remember dont stay in the coffe shop for 4 hours!! Its a short date that lasts no longer than an hour!!
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
around here at least almost everyone drinks coffee, ecspecially girls. theres a lot of cozy little coffee shops around town and most will jump at the chance to grab a mochawhateverchinno with you. but be a man and go expresso :woo:
adpreston1988
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Do you think girls are more impressed by a guy that would go pedal boating with them instead of just going to see a movie?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
shydude
Master Don Juan
pedal boating
LOL~~~ its paddle boating~`unless ur From england!!
adpreston1988
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I thought it was paddle boating, until I got there with her and we both looked confused when we saw it was, "pedal boating". We had a really fun time though and I got her to lauph a lot.
pr0teus
Don Juan
Yes, go to McDonalds! When she sees your happy meal toy she's gonna put out in no time! That's why all the 13-year-olds hang out there and get pregnant because the schoolteachers are to embarrassed to talk contraception. Of course, you gotta give Ronald credit for the romantic atmosphere too.
Besides, it's unhealthy, and all the girls I know are too conscious of what they eat to even touch the mystery meat they have there. But then again that might be because this is Europe and not USA.
Besides, it's unhealthy, and all the girls I know are too conscious of what they eat to even touch the mystery meat they have there. But then again that might be because this is Europe and not USA.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
pr0teus
Don Juan
Coffee, while being pretty relaxed and casual, it's usually quiet enough for some convo, and if you find the right place it can be pretty well laid out for some kino as well. How about selecting one café to visit on a regular basis, not just with girls. That way you make it your own and it will make you more comfortable with the atmosphere.
Oh, and if you are lucky enough to live in continental Europe or North America you might not have to sell your body to afford two coffees and a couple of brownies. (Norway sucks)
Oh, and if you are lucky enough to live in continental Europe or North America you might not have to sell your body to afford two coffees and a couple of brownies. (Norway sucks)