Indifference Kills
Don Juan
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Alot of articles and people on here talk about coffee/tea dates. You guys ever do any of this crap? It sounds like somthing for older guys/girls but i could be wrong.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Coffee Dates?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
shydude
Master Don Juan
You are kinda right! It is for older people, but girls like men that are mature!! If you will take a girl for a coffe instead McDonalds, trust me, she will think that you are THE MAN! Girls notice things more than men do, and taking her for a tea is really nice!! Plus i saw a lot of teenagers dating in the Dunkin Donuts. So taking her there would is awsome!! WHY?? 1) YOu can get to know her there 2) No morons that always make jokes about garbage like your ugly and **** 3) You will be different from all the other morons that take em to burger king 4) ITS cheap!!! 5) You can use kino on her!!!! 6) You will have fun!! And remember dont stay in the coffe shop for 4 hours!! Its a short date that lasts no longer than an hour!!
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
around here at least almost everyone drinks coffee, ecspecially girls. theres a lot of cozy little coffee shops around town and most will jump at the chance to grab a mochawhateverchinno with you. but be a man and go expresso :woo:
adpreston1988
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Do you think girls are more impressed by a guy that would go pedal boating with them instead of just going to see a movie?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
shydude
Master Don Juan
pedal boating
LOL~~~ its paddle boating~`unless ur From england!!
adpreston1988
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I thought it was paddle boating, until I got there with her and we both looked confused when we saw it was, "pedal boating". We had a really fun time though and I got her to lauph a lot.
pr0teus
Don Juan
Yes, go to McDonalds! When she sees your happy meal toy she's gonna put out in no time! That's why all the 13-year-olds hang out there and get pregnant because the schoolteachers are to embarrassed to talk contraception. Of course, you gotta give Ronald credit for the romantic atmosphere too.
Besides, it's unhealthy, and all the girls I know are too conscious of what they eat to even touch the mystery meat they have there. But then again that might be because this is Europe and not USA.
Besides, it's unhealthy, and all the girls I know are too conscious of what they eat to even touch the mystery meat they have there. But then again that might be because this is Europe and not USA.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
pr0teus
Don Juan
Coffee, while being pretty relaxed and casual, it's usually quiet enough for some convo, and if you find the right place it can be pretty well laid out for some kino as well. How about selecting one café to visit on a regular basis, not just with girls. That way you make it your own and it will make you more comfortable with the atmosphere.
Oh, and if you are lucky enough to live in continental Europe or North America you might not have to sell your body to afford two coffees and a couple of brownies. (Norway sucks)
Oh, and if you are lucky enough to live in continental Europe or North America you might not have to sell your body to afford two coffees and a couple of brownies. (Norway sucks)