Indifference Kills
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Alot of articles and people on here talk about coffee/tea dates. You guys ever do any of this crap? It sounds like somthing for older guys/girls but i could be wrong.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Coffee Dates?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
shydude
Master Don Juan
You are kinda right! It is for older people, but girls like men that are mature!! If you will take a girl for a coffe instead McDonalds, trust me, she will think that you are THE MAN! Girls notice things more than men do, and taking her for a tea is really nice!! Plus i saw a lot of teenagers dating in the Dunkin Donuts. So taking her there would is awsome!! WHY?? 1) YOu can get to know her there 2) No morons that always make jokes about garbage like your ugly and **** 3) You will be different from all the other morons that take em to burger king 4) ITS cheap!!! 5) You can use kino on her!!!! 6) You will have fun!! And remember dont stay in the coffe shop for 4 hours!! Its a short date that lasts no longer than an hour!!
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
around here at least almost everyone drinks coffee, ecspecially girls. theres a lot of cozy little coffee shops around town and most will jump at the chance to grab a mochawhateverchinno with you. but be a man and go expresso :woo:
adpreston1988
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Do you think girls are more impressed by a guy that would go pedal boating with them instead of just going to see a movie?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
shydude
Master Don Juan
pedal boating
LOL~~~ its paddle boating~`unless ur From england!!
adpreston1988
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I thought it was paddle boating, until I got there with her and we both looked confused when we saw it was, "pedal boating". We had a really fun time though and I got her to lauph a lot.
pr0teus
Don Juan
Yes, go to McDonalds! When she sees your happy meal toy she's gonna put out in no time! That's why all the 13-year-olds hang out there and get pregnant because the schoolteachers are to embarrassed to talk contraception. Of course, you gotta give Ronald credit for the romantic atmosphere too.
Besides, it's unhealthy, and all the girls I know are too conscious of what they eat to even touch the mystery meat they have there. But then again that might be because this is Europe and not USA.
Besides, it's unhealthy, and all the girls I know are too conscious of what they eat to even touch the mystery meat they have there. But then again that might be because this is Europe and not USA.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
pr0teus
Don Juan
Coffee, while being pretty relaxed and casual, it's usually quiet enough for some convo, and if you find the right place it can be pretty well laid out for some kino as well. How about selecting one café to visit on a regular basis, not just with girls. That way you make it your own and it will make you more comfortable with the atmosphere.
Oh, and if you are lucky enough to live in continental Europe or North America you might not have to sell your body to afford two coffees and a couple of brownies. (Norway sucks)
Oh, and if you are lucky enough to live in continental Europe or North America you might not have to sell your body to afford two coffees and a couple of brownies. (Norway sucks)