Code Red - Defcon 1

sazc

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#21
Murk...you just do a PISS POOR job of keeping these chicks isolated from each other.

Riddle me this - how does Katie know about Sara? WHY does Katie know about Sara?

I'll tell you how and why - YOU

There was no reason to tell Katie you banged SARA. you could have not mentioned it at all, or you say "yes, I have slept with SOMEONE ELSE" but you dont name names.

You did this. You like it. It legitimately all starts and stops with you.

I still love ya tho!
 
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backseatjuan

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#23
Yo sazc I love shapewaear and atalkings and anal. We can hittbat sht right now I’n 37 got my sht togethetber. I’ll be your man I need citizenship, you be my toy, we have opeb relationship and theesomes and sht. Hot me up. I luv mature!
 

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#24
Why is Sara living with you? Why are you sleeping with her? That is basically a recipe for disaster. Obviously she will be jealous of other women you bring around her. You can't be this stupid...
 

sazc

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#25
Yo sazc I love shapewaear and atalkings and anal. We can hittbat sht right now I’n 37 got my sht togethetber. I’ll be your man I need citizenship, you be my toy, we have opeb relationship and theesomes and sht. Hot me up. I luv mature!
Ummmmmm well now, that's quite an offer, misspellings and all! Wait...I'm not sure I understand the offer as it is laid out, lol
 

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#27
I didn’t ask for this to happen! I didn’t plan for this I never plan for this **** to happen to me ffs
You are setting yourself up for this drama, and an example of how this happens comes in your very next statement:

How do I get Sara back on side? I will tell her Katie is lying and just angry that we going on vacation together
The above approach you've considered on how to handle this absolutely guarantees more drama.

1. Katie is not lying.
2. These two women, who do not like each other, now talk to each other.
3. Sara will now always be on the lookout for a reason to piss off Katie.
4. You just gave her one: "Sara (if she believes you) tells Katie she is nothing to you and a liar".
5. Katie will find out that you denied sleeping with her.
6. The spiteful, woman's scorn, drama will step up another notch and undoubtingly ensue.

You feed drama by not squashing it.

You have the power to end this right now: pick one, the other, or cut both loose. Foot down. Done. End of drama.

And for future consideration, don't spin plates so tightly within your social circle unless these women are entirely aware of, and accept, you being that kind of a man (and even in that case, the peace will be temporary, as the drama will eventually follow once feelings develop over time).
 

sazc

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Not to mention you just gave Katie Sara's HPV

Prepare for that sh1tstorm
 

The_411

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#30
Is this Melrose Place IRL?

Sure, it can be fun to **** stir but the headaches aren’t worth it.

It’s why men should be above drama. It’s clear that these girls are fighting over you, which is fine when you can be away from the drama.

However, the big mistake is getting involved with a roommate.
 
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Difficult not to get involved with a roommate when we’ve had sexual tension a year before she even moved in with me, she wasn’t some random. It was hard to fight it, I didn’t game her, it just happened
 

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Update:

I was out most of the weekend with the Spanish waitress. Sara asked would I be home Sunday afternoon to help with food prep and to chat about all this.

I come home last night and my best friend comes over too, we are drinking rum and chatting and Sara joins us in the living room. My friend immediately questions her on the subject (he knows everyone involved), Sara plays like she doesn’t care and it’s between me and Katie to sort out and she doesn’t want to be part of the drama.

I tell Sara I’m not speaking to Katie anymore and we’re no longer friends (true) my best friend tells Sara how cruel and vindictive Katie has always been, Sara warms up more, admits she likes me more than a friend, still wants to come to Spain with me in a few weeks, calls me intense and says I can’t change her if she doesn’t open up that’s just how she is.

Anyway it’s somewhat resolved, I’ll keep my distance but at least nobody hates me right now. Case closed.
 
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