"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Code Red - Defcon 1

sazc

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Murk...you just do a PISS POOR job of keeping these chicks isolated from each other.

Riddle me this - how does Katie know about Sara? WHY does Katie know about Sara?

I'll tell you how and why - YOU

There was no reason to tell Katie you banged SARA. you could have not mentioned it at all, or you say "yes, I have slept with SOMEONE ELSE" but you dont name names.

You did this. You like it. It legitimately all starts and stops with you.

I still love ya tho!
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yo sazc I love shapewaear and atalkings and anal. We can hittbat sht right now I’n 37 got my sht togethetber. I’ll be your man I need citizenship, you be my toy, we have opeb relationship and theesomes and sht. Hot me up. I luv mature!
 

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Why is Sara living with you? Why are you sleeping with her? That is basically a recipe for disaster. Obviously she will be jealous of other women you bring around her. You can't be this stupid...
 

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Yo sazc I love shapewaear and atalkings and anal. We can hittbat sht right now I’n 37 got my sht togethetber. I’ll be your man I need citizenship, you be my toy, we have opeb relationship and theesomes and sht. Hot me up. I luv mature!
Ummmmmm well now, that's quite an offer, misspellings and all! Wait...I'm not sure I understand the offer as it is laid out, lol
 

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OP must be a troll.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Not to mention you just gave Katie Sara's HPV

Prepare for that sh1tstorm
 

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Fvck my actual life
 

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Is this Melrose Place IRL?

Sure, it can be fun to **** stir but the headaches aren’t worth it.

It’s why men should be above drama. It’s clear that these girls are fighting over you, which is fine when you can be away from the drama.

However, the big mistake is getting involved with a roommate.
 

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Difficult not to get involved with a roommate when we’ve had sexual tension a year before she even moved in with me, she wasn’t some random. It was hard to fight it, I didn’t game her, it just happened
 

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Update:

I was out most of the weekend with the Spanish waitress. Sara asked would I be home Sunday afternoon to help with food prep and to chat about all this.

I come home last night and my best friend comes over too, we are drinking rum and chatting and Sara joins us in the living room. My friend immediately questions her on the subject (he knows everyone involved), Sara plays like she doesn’t care and it’s between me and Katie to sort out and she doesn’t want to be part of the drama.

I tell Sara I’m not speaking to Katie anymore and we’re no longer friends (true) my best friend tells Sara how cruel and vindictive Katie has always been, Sara warms up more, admits she likes me more than a friend, still wants to come to Spain with me in a few weeks, calls me intense and says I can’t change her if she doesn’t open up that’s just how she is.

Anyway it’s somewhat resolved, I’ll keep my distance but at least nobody hates me right now. Case closed.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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