Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Sosuave is one of the vestiges of the "old internet", a place where people can express their opinions freely and anonymously. Governments, media and big tech are actively trying to suppress these vestiges, as they have no control over them. They are going to simultaneously label you a pathetic loser and a dangerous radical for daring to question the mainstream narrative. I burst out laughing at the end of the video when the fat chick says that she feels "empathy" for men who take the red pill and go in a "dangerous direction". I guess we should all take the "safe" route and become supplicating husbands to fat feminist cows like herself.Now that this entire idea of "Red-Pill" has gone mainstream, I do imagine SoSuave won't be around by the end of this decade.
Damn bro. It hurts reading your comment. Stay strong. And I'm sorry to hear this.If I could go back in time now and you offer 30 grand. OR you gave me two bits of red pill advice.
1. The power of walking Walk Away
2. how much women crave non sexual attention.
I would take the advice, everytime. its saved my mental health, my life, and getting my daughter back.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
So much to discuss here, and unfortunately, not all that is presented is wrong. A lot of manosphere communities can turn very toxic, we see it even here in SS. However, they are definitely pushing a story agenda, which is red-pill is misogyny and extremists. They are associating a political view on red-pill. And while there is a lot of men that do that, that is certainly not the case for a few of us here. In fact, I get really turned off when some members here start spreading political agendas which include covid-19 and its "vaccine".
You will find some level of toxicity anywhere on the Internet. I mean, you could go to a forum dedicated to baking and still find toxic people there. I find that the level of toxicity on SS is actually quite low considering the subject matter. With the exception of occasional trolls, most posters here are civil and well-behaved.So much to discuss here, and unfortunately, not all that is presented is wrong. A lot of manosphere communities can turn very toxic, we see it even here in SS.
This was years ago, I split up from the family, I sat every night trying to put the family back together- 2 kids involved (problem solving mind) whilst she sat their lapping up the attention. I thought i was being an adult, I sent her flowers in the end and instead of appreciating them,she manipulated the situation, to get more attention from orbiters/females by putting a status on social media "flowers from a secret admirer" and she ignored me.Damn bro. It hurts reading your comment. Stay strong. And I'm sorry to hear this.
This was posted in October 2017. Let's assume it aired in Fall 2017. Roosh and Heartiste have disappeared since then.Now that this entire idea of "Red-Pill" has gone mainstream, I do imagine SoSuave won't be around by the end of this decade.
This is a great synopsis of SoSuave.Sosuave is one of the vestiges of the "old internet", a place where people can express their opinions freely and anonymously. Governments, media and big tech are actively trying to suppress these vestiges, as they have no control over them. They are going to simultaneously label you a pathetic loser and a dangerous radical for daring to question the mainstream narrative. I burst out laughing at the end of the video when the fat chick says that she feels "empathy" for men who take the red pill and go in a "dangerous direction". I guess we should all take the "safe" route and become supplicating husbands to fat feminist cows like herself.
PUA has been mainstream for a long while now, it's just currently better known as "Red Pill". SoSuave somehow has managed to survive while most other seduction sites have fallen by the wayside. Maybe because there is such a wide range of discussion here, it isn't just about dating or getting laid.Now that this entire idea of "Red-Pill" has gone mainstream, I do imagine SoSuave won't be around by the end of this decade.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
ElaborateIf I could go back in time now and you offer 30 grand. OR you gave me two bits of red pill advice.
1. The power of walking Walk Away
2. how much women crave non sexual attention.
I would take the advice, everytime. its saved my mental health, my life, and getting my daughter back.
How soThis was years ago, I split up from the family, I sat every night trying to put the family back together- 2 kids involved (problem solving mind) whilst she sat their lapping up the attention. I thought i was being an adult, I sent her flowers in the end and instead of appreciating them,she manipulated the situation, to get more attention from orbiters/females by putting a status on social media "flowers from a secret admirer" and she ignored me.
I went full on Red Pill Arcade mode after
its explained quite well, / I hit the drink for 4 months, and tried every night to put my family back together, not realising i looked like a low value beg.How so
I take it you separated and now back in the dating sceneits explained quite well, / I hit the drink for 4 months, and tried every night to put my family back together, not realising i looked like a low value beg.
a guy told me to walk away, and my pathetic inner whiteknight told him i would never turn my back, on my ex.
god its disgusting looking back,
but her behaviour showed me i needed to take the pill,
You mean sexual attention correctIf I could go back in time now and you offer 30 grand. OR you gave me two bits of red pill advice.
1. The power of walking Walk Away
2. how much women crave non sexual attention.
I would take the advice, everytime. its saved my mental health, my life, and getting my daughter back.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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... tell me about it. Typical shaming bull****. Although I imagine I'd react similarly if my strategies were utterly revealed.
What I love the most about "The red pill" is that after filtering through all the BS, you recognize that most of the advice has nothing to do with women and everything to do with maturing into a better MAN. In whichever manner that means to you.
This concept of the "red pill" can turn a lost cause into a success story in the right hands. I do firmly believe this. But, unfortunately, on the opposite side of the coin, it can produce the most ruthless of incels.
There are many questionable cats on here, but the real ones do stand out. The advice can be cold but necessary and skips through all the "good feelings" BS. To those, I've listened - and trust me, I've learned and improved.
Is swallowing "the pill" Painful? Sure. But life in the realm of petty romance is MUCH more tolerable now.
What's sort of sad is you also come to recognize just how dangerous the mainstream narrative truly is. And just how far people will go to defend it.
what do you mean non sexual attention?If I could go back in time now and you offer 30 grand. OR you gave me two bits of red pill advice.
1. The power of walking Walk Away
2. how much women crave non sexual attention.
I would take the advice, everytime. its saved my mental health, my life, and getting my daughter back.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.