"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If I could go back in time now and you offer 30 grand. OR you gave me two bits of red pill advice.

1. The power of walking Walk Away
2. how much women crave non sexual attention.

I would take the advice, everytime. its saved my mental health, my life, and getting my daughter back.
 

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Now that this entire idea of "Red-Pill" has gone mainstream, I do imagine SoSuave won't be around by the end of this decade.
Sosuave is one of the vestiges of the "old internet", a place where people can express their opinions freely and anonymously. Governments, media and big tech are actively trying to suppress these vestiges, as they have no control over them. They are going to simultaneously label you a pathetic loser and a dangerous radical for daring to question the mainstream narrative. I burst out laughing at the end of the video when the fat chick says that she feels "empathy" for men who take the red pill and go in a "dangerous direction". I guess we should all take the "safe" route and become supplicating husbands to fat feminist cows like herself.
 

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If I could go back in time now and you offer 30 grand. OR you gave me two bits of red pill advice.

1. The power of walking Walk Away
2. how much women crave non sexual attention.

I would take the advice, everytime. its saved my mental health, my life, and getting my daughter back.
Damn bro. It hurts reading your comment. Stay strong. And I'm sorry to hear this.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So much to discuss here, and unfortunately, not all that is presented is wrong. A lot of manosphere communities can turn very toxic, we see it even here in SS. However, they are definitely pushing a story agenda, which is red-pill is misogyny and extremists. They are associating a political view on red-pill. And while there is a lot of men that do that, that is certainly not the case for a few of us here. In fact, I get really turned off when some members here start spreading political agendas which include covid-19 and its "vaccine".

A lot of it sounded very black-pill rather than red-pill. And if I am being honest, even some of the content in Rollo's book is a bit too rough to swallow and border line close to misogyny but if you really look it carefully it is not about victimizing men or women, it is simply a recognition and return to a natural balance of true feminine and masculine energy and roles.

Anyway, you have to be very vigilant when it comes to online behavior and content. That I do agree with.


Modern Man Advice
 

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So much to discuss here, and unfortunately, not all that is presented is wrong. A lot of manosphere communities can turn very toxic, we see it even here in SS.
You will find some level of toxicity anywhere on the Internet. I mean, you could go to a forum dedicated to baking and still find toxic people there. I find that the level of toxicity on SS is actually quite low considering the subject matter. With the exception of occasional trolls, most posters here are civil and well-behaved.
 

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Damn bro. It hurts reading your comment. Stay strong. And I'm sorry to hear this.
This was years ago, I split up from the family, I sat every night trying to put the family back together- 2 kids involved (problem solving mind) whilst she sat their lapping up the attention. I thought i was being an adult, I sent her flowers in the end and instead of appreciating them,she manipulated the situation, to get more attention from orbiters/females by putting a status on social media "flowers from a secret admirer" and she ignored me.

I went full on Red Pill Arcade mode after
 
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Now that this entire idea of "Red-Pill" has gone mainstream, I do imagine SoSuave won't be around by the end of this decade.
This was posted in October 2017. Let's assume it aired in Fall 2017. Roosh and Heartiste have disappeared since then.

Sosuave is one of the vestiges of the "old internet", a place where people can express their opinions freely and anonymously. Governments, media and big tech are actively trying to suppress these vestiges, as they have no control over them. They are going to simultaneously label you a pathetic loser and a dangerous radical for daring to question the mainstream narrative. I burst out laughing at the end of the video when the fat chick says that she feels "empathy" for men who take the red pill and go in a "dangerous direction". I guess we should all take the "safe" route and become supplicating husbands to fat feminist cows like herself.
This is a great synopsis of SoSuave.
 

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Now that this entire idea of "Red-Pill" has gone mainstream, I do imagine SoSuave won't be around by the end of this decade.
PUA has been mainstream for a long while now, it's just currently better known as "Red Pill". SoSuave somehow has managed to survive while most other seduction sites have fallen by the wayside. Maybe because there is such a wide range of discussion here, it isn't just about dating or getting laid.

One thing that amuses me is how common the term "Alpha" has become. When I was a young man, I literally never heard this term, and if I did it was in a zoology context. Then at some point you started hearing guys use it. Now I think women use it just as much, which amazes me.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If I could go back in time now and you offer 30 grand. OR you gave me two bits of red pill advice.

1. The power of walking Walk Away
2. how much women crave non sexual attention.

I would take the advice, everytime. its saved my mental health, my life, and getting my daughter back.
Elaborate
 

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This was years ago, I split up from the family, I sat every night trying to put the family back together- 2 kids involved (problem solving mind) whilst she sat their lapping up the attention. I thought i was being an adult, I sent her flowers in the end and instead of appreciating them,she manipulated the situation, to get more attention from orbiters/females by putting a status on social media "flowers from a secret admirer" and she ignored me.

I went full on Red Pill Arcade mode after
How so
 

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its explained quite well, / I hit the drink for 4 months, and tried every night to put my family back together, not realising i looked like a low value beg.

a guy told me to walk away, and my pathetic inner whiteknight told him i would never turn my back, on my ex.

god its disgusting looking back,

but her behaviour showed me i needed to take the pill,
 

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its explained quite well, / I hit the drink for 4 months, and tried every night to put my family back together, not realising i looked like a low value beg.

a guy told me to walk away, and my pathetic inner whiteknight told him i would never turn my back, on my ex.

god its disgusting looking back,

but her behaviour showed me i needed to take the pill,
I take it you separated and now back in the dating scene
 

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If I could go back in time now and you offer 30 grand. OR you gave me two bits of red pill advice.

1. The power of walking Walk Away
2. how much women crave non sexual attention.

I would take the advice, everytime. its saved my mental health, my life, and getting my daughter back.
You mean sexual attention correct
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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:rofl: :rofl: :rofl:... tell me about it. Typical shaming bull****. Although I imagine I'd react similarly if my strategies were utterly revealed.

What I love the most about "The red pill" is that after filtering through all the BS, you recognize that most of the advice has nothing to do with women and everything to do with maturing into a better MAN. In whichever manner that means to you.

This concept of the "red pill" can turn a lost cause into a success story in the right hands. I do firmly believe this. But, unfortunately, on the opposite side of the coin, it can produce the most ruthless of incels.

There are many questionable cats on here, but the real ones do stand out. The advice can be cold but necessary and skips through all the "good feelings" BS. To those, I've listened - and trust me, I've learned and improved.

Is swallowing "the pill" Painful? Sure. But life in the realm of petty romance is MUCH more tolerable now.

What's sort of sad is you also come to recognize just how dangerous the mainstream narrative truly is. And just how far people will go to defend it.
Well said
 

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It seems like black pill is becoming more popular than red pill, something that's been going on for at least 3 years, if not longer.
 

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No matter what they say, women will continue to hook up with guys like us. I've had enough girls beneath me telling me to **** them harder that were online talking **** against the manosphere. When all along, the manosphere is right behind her with a standard ruler up her snatch.
 

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If I could go back in time now and you offer 30 grand. OR you gave me two bits of red pill advice.

1. The power of walking Walk Away
2. how much women crave non sexual attention.

I would take the advice, everytime. its saved my mental health, my life, and getting my daughter back.
what do you mean non sexual attention?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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