Knight's Cross
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Aug 31, 2007
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Bingo on the insight Reset and Jophil. My Ex BPD Gal did EXACTLY the same ping pong dance. She alternated between guys that she was controlled by (Other Narcisistic/ Sociopath whackos) to guys that she tried to control herself through her own BPD behavior (me, and one other guy that from what I gather had it together and told her to pack sand as well).
To the OP: Many guys that find the SS forum are quick to label women. It's very easy to put a sticker on someone and group them into a stereotype. We aren't talking about normal behaviors here. That's why anyone who has been in a relationship with a Cluster B type woman will tell you to RUN and get as far as possible from her. I also believe that until I found this forum, I had no idea what BPD was. So you have guys like myself that know something is wrong, but don't know what it is. That's where members like K-X, and Jophil have helped me OPEN MY EYES to what I was dealing with.
Yes, this is just an internet forum. The REAL WORLD field reports you are hearing here are what you are going to get, we are not counselors or psychologists, although some here have worked in support group activities. They do have a GOOD understanding of what the Cluster B behaviors are about. Many of us are also just educated men applying reason to understand what we are involved with. Thats enough for me. So if it helps some guys make an assessment with what they are dealing with, more the better.
KC
To the OP: Many guys that find the SS forum are quick to label women. It's very easy to put a sticker on someone and group them into a stereotype. We aren't talking about normal behaviors here. That's why anyone who has been in a relationship with a Cluster B type woman will tell you to RUN and get as far as possible from her. I also believe that until I found this forum, I had no idea what BPD was. So you have guys like myself that know something is wrong, but don't know what it is. That's where members like K-X, and Jophil have helped me OPEN MY EYES to what I was dealing with.
Yes, this is just an internet forum. The REAL WORLD field reports you are hearing here are what you are going to get, we are not counselors or psychologists, although some here have worked in support group activities. They do have a GOOD understanding of what the Cluster B behaviors are about. Many of us are also just educated men applying reason to understand what we are involved with. Thats enough for me. So if it helps some guys make an assessment with what they are dealing with, more the better.
KC