I have a problem which I really should not be having at all. First let me give a you a brief background about myself. I am a 19 year college student who is considered to be a physically attractive guy. I am a very toned, musular guy who keeps in very great shape, and I always hear about how girls think that I am hot(this is what I have heard.) I am also pretty much one of the few African-American people in my general area which also has attracted girls simply because I stand out and am something different. My problem is that I have no game at all. All of my friends have always wondered why I never have a girl and some have even wondered if I was gay. The truth is that I have just always been clueless about what to do. I know that I shouldn't be having trouble at all because I have had quite a few 6-7's actually approach me before, i just have no game, and I know that they are very intersted by the way that they act around me but they end up loosing interest because of my lack of knowlege of what to do. I have also been led to believe by the actions of my boys that I am not supposed to be a "mack" just because I never really have before. I have read the DJ Bible and have read the bootcamp and have learned a lot and it has really helped me out. I was just wanting your opinions and insights on my situation.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
hehe what he up there said....
Hey man Im in the same shoes as you, but anyways just go out there and use ur skilzz read the bootcamp articles and pay attension and i think ul be doin just fine...
(Its better to regret then to wonder what would have happened =) )
Hey man Im in the same shoes as you, but anyways just go out there and use ur skilzz read the bootcamp articles and pay attension and i think ul be doin just fine...
(Its better to regret then to wonder what would have happened =) )
gixxer
Don Juan
Get David DeAngelo's advanced series. Best investment you could make in yourself. You WILL have game after you go through that program a couple of times.........
gixx
gixx
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
Think of it like this, when you learn something new you go through 4 stages
1. Unconsious incompetence (don't know that you don't know)
2. Conscious incompetence (Know that you don't know)
3. Conscious competence (you know but you have to think about it)
4. Unconscious competence (you know, but it's 'second nature')
You are now stuck in 2
1. Unconsious incompetence (don't know that you don't know)
2. Conscious incompetence (Know that you don't know)
3. Conscious competence (you know but you have to think about it)
4. Unconscious competence (you know, but it's 'second nature')
You are now stuck in 2