I have a problem which I really should not be having at all. First let me give a you a brief background about myself. I am a 19 year college student who is considered to be a physically attractive guy. I am a very toned, musular guy who keeps in very great shape, and I always hear about how girls think that I am hot(this is what I have heard.) I am also pretty much one of the few African-American people in my general area which also has attracted girls simply because I stand out and am something different. My problem is that I have no game at all. All of my friends have always wondered why I never have a girl and some have even wondered if I was gay. The truth is that I have just always been clueless about what to do. I know that I shouldn't be having trouble at all because I have had quite a few 6-7's actually approach me before, i just have no game, and I know that they are very intersted by the way that they act around me but they end up loosing interest because of my lack of knowlege of what to do. I have also been led to believe by the actions of my boys that I am not supposed to be a "mack" just because I never really have before. I have read the DJ Bible and have read the bootcamp and have learned a lot and it has really helped me out. I was just wanting your opinions and insights on my situation.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
clueless
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
hehe what he up there said....
Hey man Im in the same shoes as you, but anyways just go out there and use ur skilzz read the bootcamp articles and pay attension and i think ul be doin just fine...
(Its better to regret then to wonder what would have happened =) )
Hey man Im in the same shoes as you, but anyways just go out there and use ur skilzz read the bootcamp articles and pay attension and i think ul be doin just fine...
(Its better to regret then to wonder what would have happened =) )
gixxer
Don Juan
Get David DeAngelo's advanced series. Best investment you could make in yourself. You WILL have game after you go through that program a couple of times.........
gixx
gixx
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
Think of it like this, when you learn something new you go through 4 stages
1. Unconsious incompetence (don't know that you don't know)
2. Conscious incompetence (Know that you don't know)
3. Conscious competence (you know but you have to think about it)
4. Unconscious competence (you know, but it's 'second nature')
You are now stuck in 2
1. Unconsious incompetence (don't know that you don't know)
2. Conscious incompetence (Know that you don't know)
3. Conscious competence (you know but you have to think about it)
4. Unconscious competence (you know, but it's 'second nature')
You are now stuck in 2