I have a problem which I really should not be having at all. First let me give a you a brief background about myself. I am a 19 year college student who is considered to be a physically attractive guy. I am a very toned, musular guy who keeps in very great shape, and I always hear about how girls think that I am hot(this is what I have heard.) I am also pretty much one of the few African-American people in my general area which also has attracted girls simply because I stand out and am something different. My problem is that I have no game at all. All of my friends have always wondered why I never have a girl and some have even wondered if I was gay. The truth is that I have just always been clueless about what to do. I know that I shouldn't be having trouble at all because I have had quite a few 6-7's actually approach me before, i just have no game, and I know that they are very intersted by the way that they act around me but they end up loosing interest because of my lack of knowlege of what to do. I have also been led to believe by the actions of my boys that I am not supposed to be a "mack" just because I never really have before. I have read the DJ Bible and have read the bootcamp and have learned a lot and it has really helped me out. I was just wanting your opinions and insights on my situation.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
clueless
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
hehe what he up there said....
Hey man Im in the same shoes as you, but anyways just go out there and use ur skilzz read the bootcamp articles and pay attension and i think ul be doin just fine...
(Its better to regret then to wonder what would have happened =) )
Hey man Im in the same shoes as you, but anyways just go out there and use ur skilzz read the bootcamp articles and pay attension and i think ul be doin just fine...
(Its better to regret then to wonder what would have happened =) )
gixxer
Don Juan
Get David DeAngelo's advanced series. Best investment you could make in yourself. You WILL have game after you go through that program a couple of times.........
gixx
gixx
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
Think of it like this, when you learn something new you go through 4 stages
1. Unconsious incompetence (don't know that you don't know)
2. Conscious incompetence (Know that you don't know)
3. Conscious competence (you know but you have to think about it)
4. Unconscious competence (you know, but it's 'second nature')
You are now stuck in 2
1. Unconsious incompetence (don't know that you don't know)
2. Conscious incompetence (Know that you don't know)
3. Conscious competence (you know but you have to think about it)
4. Unconscious competence (you know, but it's 'second nature')
You are now stuck in 2