I have a problem which I really should not be having at all. First let me give a you a brief background about myself. I am a 19 year college student who is considered to be a physically attractive guy. I am a very toned, musular guy who keeps in very great shape, and I always hear about how girls think that I am hot(this is what I have heard.) I am also pretty much one of the few African-American people in my general area which also has attracted girls simply because I stand out and am something different. My problem is that I have no game at all. All of my friends have always wondered why I never have a girl and some have even wondered if I was gay. The truth is that I have just always been clueless about what to do. I know that I shouldn't be having trouble at all because I have had quite a few 6-7's actually approach me before, i just have no game, and I know that they are very intersted by the way that they act around me but they end up loosing interest because of my lack of knowlege of what to do. I have also been led to believe by the actions of my boys that I am not supposed to be a "mack" just because I never really have before. I have read the DJ Bible and have read the bootcamp and have learned a lot and it has really helped me out. I was just wanting your opinions and insights on my situation.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
clueless
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
hehe what he up there said....
Hey man Im in the same shoes as you, but anyways just go out there and use ur skilzz read the bootcamp articles and pay attension and i think ul be doin just fine...
(Its better to regret then to wonder what would have happened =) )
Hey man Im in the same shoes as you, but anyways just go out there and use ur skilzz read the bootcamp articles and pay attension and i think ul be doin just fine...
(Its better to regret then to wonder what would have happened =) )
gixxer
Don Juan
Get David DeAngelo's advanced series. Best investment you could make in yourself. You WILL have game after you go through that program a couple of times.........
gixx
gixx
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
Think of it like this, when you learn something new you go through 4 stages
1. Unconsious incompetence (don't know that you don't know)
2. Conscious incompetence (Know that you don't know)
3. Conscious competence (you know but you have to think about it)
4. Unconscious competence (you know, but it's 'second nature')
You are now stuck in 2
1. Unconsious incompetence (don't know that you don't know)
2. Conscious incompetence (Know that you don't know)
3. Conscious competence (you know but you have to think about it)
4. Unconscious competence (you know, but it's 'second nature')
You are now stuck in 2