"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Clubbin' Question...

alakazam

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Okay....so when you're out of the floor and dirty dancing with some chick, what do you guys think about the whole hard-on issue?

The way I've always looked at it is, "What the hell does she expect to happen if she grinds her ass against my crotch?" and never really worried about it.

Do you guys generally agree or is there something I'm not seein'?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DJ Alejandro

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you think too much. just dance. follow her lead. that's it.
 

DJUofS

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Originally posted by DJ Alejandro
you think too much. just dance. follow her lead. that's it.
Follow her lead? I always thought the guys were suppose to take charge of the dance.

Not trying to criticize, because I usually follow her lead as well... but i'm not exactly a master dancer.
 

Hollowpoint

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Originally posted by DJ Alejandro
you think too much. just dance. follow her lead. that's it.
True.
I believe what he means by follow her lead is: observe the signals she is giving you, and react accordingly to them WHILE being agressive and moving forward in kino.
 

Kineti[C]harm

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Nah

Search for "dance magic and power of eyes", the second you are INN (The second she lets you dance with her) YOU CONTROL IT. Just never ever do something that turns her of or makes her angry/violates her. Other than that you control everything.

Concerning the boner, do not care about it. Let her feel it, let her ass slide up against it, make her know it's turning you on, that it's okay to be horny about this.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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