"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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alakazam

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Okay....so when you're out of the floor and dirty dancing with some chick, what do you guys think about the whole hard-on issue?

The way I've always looked at it is, "What the hell does she expect to happen if she grinds her ass against my crotch?" and never really worried about it.

Do you guys generally agree or is there something I'm not seein'?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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you think too much. just dance. follow her lead. that's it.
 
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Originally posted by DJ Alejandro
you think too much. just dance. follow her lead. that's it.
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Follow her lead? I always thought the guys were suppose to take charge of the dance.

Not trying to criticize, because I usually follow her lead as well... but i'm not exactly a master dancer.
 
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Originally posted by DJ Alejandro
you think too much. just dance. follow her lead. that's it.
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True.
I believe what he means by follow her lead is: observe the signals she is giving you, and react accordingly to them WHILE being agressive and moving forward in kino.
 
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Nah

Search for "dance magic and power of eyes", the second you are INN (The second she lets you dance with her) YOU CONTROL IT. Just never ever do something that turns her of or makes her angry/violates her. Other than that you control everything.

Concerning the boner, do not care about it. Let her feel it, let her ass slide up against it, make her know it's turning you on, that it's okay to be horny about this.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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