"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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alakazam

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Okay....so when you're out of the floor and dirty dancing with some chick, what do you guys think about the whole hard-on issue?

The way I've always looked at it is, "What the hell does she expect to happen if she grinds her ass against my crotch?" and never really worried about it.

Do you guys generally agree or is there something I'm not seein'?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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you think too much. just dance. follow her lead. that's it.
 
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Originally posted by DJ Alejandro
you think too much. just dance. follow her lead. that's it.
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Follow her lead? I always thought the guys were suppose to take charge of the dance.

Not trying to criticize, because I usually follow her lead as well... but i'm not exactly a master dancer.
 
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Originally posted by DJ Alejandro
you think too much. just dance. follow her lead. that's it.
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True.
I believe what he means by follow her lead is: observe the signals she is giving you, and react accordingly to them WHILE being agressive and moving forward in kino.
 
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Nah

Search for "dance magic and power of eyes", the second you are INN (The second she lets you dance with her) YOU CONTROL IT. Just never ever do something that turns her of or makes her angry/violates her. Other than that you control everything.

Concerning the boner, do not care about it. Let her feel it, let her ass slide up against it, make her know it's turning you on, that it's okay to be horny about this.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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