silenthill
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Do you guys think this is a good clothing style? I'm trying to appear casual and laid back.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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silenthill
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Um what the hell are you talking about?
DJ_in_making
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gloves. But as long as you bring the sword with you
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Okay, in all seriousness. You don't have the looks to get away with that clothing style, no offense. Lose the windbreaker type khaki's and wear some jeans.
LOL you edited your post and took your face out of the pic. How insecure are you dude.
LOL you edited your post and took your face out of the pic. How insecure are you dude.
silenthill
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Nah, I hate jeans. Though if you works for you, great.
silenthill
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Whoa dude calm down. Fine heres a close up.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
OfficeSpace
Master Don Juan
I think you need to worry about the look of your face before you start worrying about the clothes you wear.. Find someone that looks liek you and that has a style that looks good on them. Chances are it will look good on you too.Originally posted by silenthill
Whoa dude calm down. Fine heres a close up.
Doesn't matter if you like jeans or not. The style you got on now gives me the impression that you're most likely still in high school... and you're getting no ass.
Don't worry about the face bullsh!t, worry about personal hygene.
Change your style.
Don't worry about the face bullsh!t, worry about personal hygene.
Change your style.
silenthill
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I told you jeans arnt my thing. I don't care if I look like the sh*t in them, I still won't wear them. If you guys like wearing jeans, go for it.
And no, I'm not goth, so I'm not going to start dressing in pure black. Lighten up guy
And no, I'm not goth, so I'm not going to start dressing in pure black. Lighten up guy
That's tough sh!t. You better start making them your thing. The first thing a girl looks at is the way a guy dresses. I've never heard anybody say "Jeans aren't my thing."
The look you got now makes you look like a nerd. Lose the windbreaker khakis, and why are you wearing a black undershirt with white lettering showing? C'mon, you're not Brad Pitt you can't just throw on anything.
silenthill
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Ok, you can wear your tight jeans. I'll stick to khakis.
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
spitkicker
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you look a little unkempt and messy. If you insist on not wearing jeans...which is odd and not the best thing you could do...mabe get some better fitting khakis. Not dockers style, but something cool from "Paper Denim" They make some really cool khaki style pants that have the trendiness and flair of jeans. Also, linen pants have been known to work, but i never incorporate them in my stlyle.
The cargos you are wearing now were in in 1999. Not now, i don't think....
Lose the text on the shirt underneath. Add 1 piece of jewlery.
And the shirt looks a little too generic....
check out: www.solisstyle.com and see if anything floats your boat.
hope this helps
The cargos you are wearing now were in in 1999. Not now, i don't think....
Lose the text on the shirt underneath. Add 1 piece of jewlery.
And the shirt looks a little too generic....
check out: www.solisstyle.com and see if anything floats your boat.
hope this helps
silenthill
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Thank you! For auctually giving some constructive critism.
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Oh and if I wanted to look like 95% of people on campus, I would wear jeans.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.