"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Do you guys think this is a good clothing style? I'm trying to appear casual and laid back.

 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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you lookin for guys or what? looks like you're ready for a d1ck in your ass.
 
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gloves. But as long as you bring the sword with you;)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Okay, in all seriousness. You don't have the looks to get away with that clothing style, no offense. Lose the windbreaker type khaki's and wear some jeans.

LOL you edited your post and took your face out of the pic. How insecure are you dude.
 
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Can I ask you a question? How are you going to edit out your face when you approach girls?
 
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I didn't really want you to post your pic, I just thought you had self-esteem issues.

You look confident, which is good.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by silenthill
Whoa dude calm down. Fine heres a close up.
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I think you need to worry about the look of your face before you start worrying about the clothes you wear.. Find someone that looks liek you and that has a style that looks good on them. Chances are it will look good on you too.
 
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Doesn't matter if you like jeans or not. The style you got on now gives me the impression that you're most likely still in high school... and you're getting no ass.

Don't worry about the face bullsh!t, worry about personal hygene.

Change your style.
 
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I told you jeans arnt my thing. I don't care if I look like the sh*t in them, I still won't wear them. If you guys like wearing jeans, go for it.

And no, I'm not goth, so I'm not going to start dressing in pure black. Lighten up guy
 
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I told you jeans arnt my thing.
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That's tough sh!t. You better start making them your thing. The first thing a girl looks at is the way a guy dresses. I've never heard anybody say "Jeans aren't my thing."

The look you got now makes you look like a nerd. Lose the windbreaker khakis, and why are you wearing a black undershirt with white lettering showing? C'mon, you're not Brad Pitt you can't just throw on anything.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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you look a little unkempt and messy. If you insist on not wearing jeans...which is odd and not the best thing you could do...mabe get some better fitting khakis. Not dockers style, but something cool from "Paper Denim" They make some really cool khaki style pants that have the trendiness and flair of jeans. Also, linen pants have been known to work, but i never incorporate them in my stlyle.

The cargos you are wearing now were in in 1999. Not now, i don't think....

Lose the text on the shirt underneath. Add 1 piece of jewlery.

And the shirt looks a little too generic....
check out: www.solisstyle.com and see if anything floats your boat.

hope this helps
 
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Originally posted by spitkicker
you look a little unkempt and messy. If you insist on not wearing jeans...which is odd and not the best thing you could do...mabe get some better fitting khakis. Not dockers style, but something cool from "Paper Denim" They make some really cool khaki style pants that have the trendiness and flair of jeans. Also, linen pants have been known to work, but i never incorporate them in my stlyle.

The cargos you are wearing now were in in 1999. Not now, i don't think....

Lose the text on the shirt underneath. Add 1 piece of jewlery.

And the shirt looks a little too generic....
check out: www.solisstyle.com and see if anything floats your boat.

hope this helps
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Thank you! For auctually giving some constructive critism.
 
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Oh and if I wanted to look like 95% of people on campus, I would wear jeans.
 
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Are you trying to pull off a Brad Pitt Look by throwing on that mismatching stuff?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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