"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do you guys think this is a good clothing style? I'm trying to appear casual and laid back.

 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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you lookin for guys or what? looks like you're ready for a d1ck in your ass.
 
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gloves. But as long as you bring the sword with you;)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Okay, in all seriousness. You don't have the looks to get away with that clothing style, no offense. Lose the windbreaker type khaki's and wear some jeans.

LOL you edited your post and took your face out of the pic. How insecure are you dude.
 
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Can I ask you a question? How are you going to edit out your face when you approach girls?
 
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I didn't really want you to post your pic, I just thought you had self-esteem issues.

You look confident, which is good.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by silenthill
Whoa dude calm down. Fine heres a close up.
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I think you need to worry about the look of your face before you start worrying about the clothes you wear.. Find someone that looks liek you and that has a style that looks good on them. Chances are it will look good on you too.
 
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Doesn't matter if you like jeans or not. The style you got on now gives me the impression that you're most likely still in high school... and you're getting no ass.

Don't worry about the face bullsh!t, worry about personal hygene.

Change your style.
 
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I told you jeans arnt my thing. I don't care if I look like the sh*t in them, I still won't wear them. If you guys like wearing jeans, go for it.

And no, I'm not goth, so I'm not going to start dressing in pure black. Lighten up guy
 
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I told you jeans arnt my thing.
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That's tough sh!t. You better start making them your thing. The first thing a girl looks at is the way a guy dresses. I've never heard anybody say "Jeans aren't my thing."

The look you got now makes you look like a nerd. Lose the windbreaker khakis, and why are you wearing a black undershirt with white lettering showing? C'mon, you're not Brad Pitt you can't just throw on anything.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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you look a little unkempt and messy. If you insist on not wearing jeans...which is odd and not the best thing you could do...mabe get some better fitting khakis. Not dockers style, but something cool from "Paper Denim" They make some really cool khaki style pants that have the trendiness and flair of jeans. Also, linen pants have been known to work, but i never incorporate them in my stlyle.

The cargos you are wearing now were in in 1999. Not now, i don't think....

Lose the text on the shirt underneath. Add 1 piece of jewlery.

And the shirt looks a little too generic....
check out: www.solisstyle.com and see if anything floats your boat.

hope this helps
 
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Originally posted by spitkicker
you look a little unkempt and messy. If you insist on not wearing jeans...which is odd and not the best thing you could do...mabe get some better fitting khakis. Not dockers style, but something cool from "Paper Denim" They make some really cool khaki style pants that have the trendiness and flair of jeans. Also, linen pants have been known to work, but i never incorporate them in my stlyle.

The cargos you are wearing now were in in 1999. Not now, i don't think....

Lose the text on the shirt underneath. Add 1 piece of jewlery.

And the shirt looks a little too generic....
check out: www.solisstyle.com and see if anything floats your boat.

hope this helps
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Thank you! For auctually giving some constructive critism.
 
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Oh and if I wanted to look like 95% of people on campus, I would wear jeans.
 
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Are you trying to pull off a Brad Pitt Look by throwing on that mismatching stuff?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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