“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Cleared it with the mods! A thread I’ve wanted to do for years. Post your real life picture let the community help fix your looks!(completely optiona)

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I get decent reply rates and dates from them and most of them are fairly hot looking too. Ages 38 to 50. Why would they take me over a fat older guy with a beard?
Bro stfu lol... they didn't take you over anyone if they never had sex with you. The guy who had sex with them is the one that was chosen
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I guess you've never been to Minnesota or California then
I assume everyone in Cali is just ****ed in the head tho. Just liberal af, particularly in SoCal.

Minnesota has a lot of Somalis from what I heard though, and those people look different from other African Americans. They all got higher cheekbones bro, every single one of them. It’s the same in the UK too where they got Somalis there as well—all of them got them cheekbones bruh. Goodlooking people. I personally am not really attracted to black chicks, just not my type. But these people were especially goodlooking for some reason. Just in my opinion anyway.
 

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I assume everyone in Cali is just ****ed in the head tho. Just liberal af, particularly in SoCal.

Minnesota has a lot of Somalis from what I heard though, and those people look different from other African Americans. They all got higher cheekbones bro, every single one of them. It’s the same in the UK too where they got Somalis there as well—all of them got them cheekbones bruh. Goodlooking people. I personally am not really attracted to black chicks, just not my type. But these people were especially goodlooking for some reason. Just in my opinion anyway.
That's the thing though, if you're good looking there are no rules lol. Some black people just look really good, and some of us have high check bones because a lot of us are mixed with native American. I kinda have a European look and I don't have any Somali blood or nothing. I'm just a good looking black guy period. I call myself the black Cristiano Ronaldo lol

I don't like black women either, so I ain't mad at you
 

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I assume everyone in Cali is just ****ed in the head tho. Just liberal af, particularly in SoCal.

Minnesota has a lot of Somalis from what I heard though, and those people look different from other African Americans. They all got higher cheekbones bro, every single one of them. It’s the same in the UK too where they got Somalis there as well—all of them got them cheekbones bruh. Goodlooking people. I personally am not really attracted to black chicks, just not my type. But these people were especially goodlooking for some reason. Just in my opinion anyway.
Who cares if they're liberal. If they're hot bang em. I don't care
 

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I don't want to be fat. I'd rather be skinny. When I was fat I felt nasty.
Dude,125 at 5'9" or whatever you are is beyond skinny. No body is going to want to date that. They are going to feel like dating an Ethiopian they need to feed. Get it up to 145-160lb and your good. We gave you the formula to put on size.

Plus you need to be getting your dyck wet somewhere. Heavier girls like skinny dudes, so you might park your c0ck in a fat chick for now. It'll raise your confidence and testosterone and stop you from complaining.
 

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Dude,125 at 5'9" or whatever you are is beyond skinny. No body is going to want to date that. They are going to feel like dating an Ethiopian they need to feed. Get it up to 145-160lb and your good. We gave you the formula to put on size.

Plus you need to be getting your dyck wet somewhere. Heavier girls like skinny dudes, so you might park your c0ck in a fat chick for now. It'll raise your confidence and testosterone and stop you from complaining.
A guy who worked for a vendor where I work is like 5 foot 5 and like 105 lbs super skinny and gets chicks mostly cold approach. Granted like hb 6 or hb7, lower than what you guys on here go far. Goes to clubs and that. The ones I get from old are better looking. But just the point hes a stick and can get dates.
 

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A guy who worked for a vendor where I work is like 5 foot 5 and like 105 lbs super skinny and gets chicks mostly cold approach. Granted like hb 6 or hb7, lower than what you guys on here go far. Goes to clubs and that. The ones I get from old are better looking. But just the point hes a stick and can get dates.
You also said in another post somewhere that a woman asked you for more pics, because she thought you were SKINNY... so yea. Stop it
 

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A guy who worked for a vendor where I work is like 5 foot 5 and like 105 lbs super skinny and gets chicks mostly cold approach. Granted like hb 6 or hb7, lower than what you guys on here go far. Goes to clubs and that. The ones I get from old are better looking. But just the point hes a stick and can get dates.
Hey bro, but it's not a good position to be in. It's like saying that driving a 84 honda accord rust bucket is the best way to roll in these situations.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Right, your not gonna ask about politics and that's gonna turn you off from hitting it.
A lot of the hot women on old are liberal and even state it. I'm to the right and dont mention it. Gotta hide your politics.
 

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So I’ve wanted to post this thread for literally years! But never knew if it would violate forum terms, I think it would solve a ton of problems on this forum.

I think some of us aren’t getting the results we want because your look needs a little tweaking, we are all diamonds in the rough.

So I invite anyone who is brave enough to post their real life picture and let us critique you in a friendly way.

The rules:
-No pictures with company logos or showing where you work

-No disrespect/bullying. We are helping each other, not here to make fun of each other.



-Feel free to blur a portion of the photo (eyes perhaps) to retain some anonymity.

and of course I’ll go first:
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I know my beard looks a little messy, it’s usually neater.
Although I’m new to this forum, there’s some insight I can offer. You need a fuller pic of your overall presentation and your general style.

What’s your identity and sexy stereotype?
 

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Just a general comment to all the gym pics.

Being a musclehead is a type. Having muscles is good but there’s more than just building muscle. Frankly some of you would improve more by doing yoga, CrossFit, martial art, dance classes (ballet, lead/follow, etc.) or any other movement activity that would train how you move with grace, balance and poise through a room.

It would improve your body language and general ‘vibe’ much more than just adding more muscle.

As a musclehead, there’s always the bigger guy, but he is also the slower guy, the one dimensional guy, the guy that can be easily out-maneuvered except for his bench press domain.

The world is much larger than the four walls of the gym.
 

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Just a general comment to all the gym pics.

Being a musclehead is a type. Having muscles is good but there’s more than just building muscle. Frankly some of you would improve more by doing yoga, CrossFit, martial art, dance classes (ballet, lead/follow, etc.) or any other movement activity that would train how you move with grace, balance and poise through a room.

It would improve your body language and general ‘vibe’ much more than just adding more muscle.

As a musclehead, there’s always the bigger guy, but he is also the slower guy, the one dimensional guy, the guy that can be easily out-maneuvered except for his bench press domain.

The world is much larger than the four walls of the gym.
Welcome to the forum. Yoga is great, a 40 year old man in ballet is creepy and you may “out maneuver me” but when I catch you.. oh boy when I catch you.
 

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Welcome to the forum. Yoga is great, a 40 year old man in ballet is creepy and you may “out maneuver me” but when I catch you.. oh boy when I catch you.
From what I've seen most of the guys who don't give a eff enough to be in the room are 40 and up. It's literally guys in there just worried about maxxing out fitness and flexibility.

Ain't no man in that room in there to pick up chicks...
 

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From what I've seen most of the guys who don't give a eff enough to be in the room are 40 and up. It's literally guys in there just worried about maxxing out fitness and flexibility.

Ain't no man in that room in there to pick up chicks...
If I was in there I would.
 

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Don't try to pick up ch1cks in that room, you'd look CREEPY! Let them talk to you. People end up meeting after several classes, you won't have to go out of your way for those convos to start up.
That's what I did in pilates classes in college one summer. Only 2 hot chicks in the entire class but I happen to make and effort to sit next to the hottest chick in class solid hb9. Then about half way thru the course just flat out did cold approach after class and she told me to take my phone out and put her number on it
 

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That's what I did in pilates classes in college one summer. Only 2 hot chicks in the entire class but I happen to make and effort to sit next to the hottest chick in class solid hb9. Then about half way thru the course just flat out did cold approach after class and she told me to take my phone out and put her number on it
And then what happened...
 
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