I currently live at home with my parents and two siblings, and my house is usually pretty messy, because no one else will help clean it up. I don't like to invite friends over because of that. Also, I find that I have been feeling guilty leaving the house to sarge or something or to just hang out. My room isn't too pretty either. Isn't a clean organized house part of improving yourself? I guess the point of my question is do you guys have any suggestions about cleaning up my house so it is cooler to hang out and maybe invite girls over? I dunno, I'm pretty tired and this is just one of those things that I could improve on.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Cleaning the House
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Ace of Flames
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Um... how about... cleaning it? Maybe? :crazy:Eiljwa said:
And then keep it tidy everyday so it doesn't get like this again.
Teflon_Mcgee
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Keeping a clean house will do so much to provide you with a positive energy.
Just spend 20 minutes a day picking-up. Once a week, throw on some headphones and spend a couple hours making it white glove ready.
Just get in the habit and after a couple months you'll enjoy it.
Just spend 20 minutes a day picking-up. Once a week, throw on some headphones and spend a couple hours making it white glove ready.
Just get in the habit and after a couple months you'll enjoy it.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i can not think straight when my home is dirty.