I currently live at home with my parents and two siblings, and my house is usually pretty messy, because no one else will help clean it up. I don't like to invite friends over because of that. Also, I find that I have been feeling guilty leaving the house to sarge or something or to just hang out. My room isn't too pretty either. Isn't a clean organized house part of improving yourself? I guess the point of my question is do you guys have any suggestions about cleaning up my house so it is cooler to hang out and maybe invite girls over? I dunno, I'm pretty tired and this is just one of those things that I could improve on.
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
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Cleaning the House
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Um... how about... cleaning it? Maybe? :crazy:Eiljwa said:
And then keep it tidy everyday so it doesn't get like this again.
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Keeping a clean house will do so much to provide you with a positive energy.
Just spend 20 minutes a day picking-up. Once a week, throw on some headphones and spend a couple hours making it white glove ready.
Just get in the habit and after a couple months you'll enjoy it.
Just spend 20 minutes a day picking-up. Once a week, throw on some headphones and spend a couple hours making it white glove ready.
Just get in the habit and after a couple months you'll enjoy it.
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
penkitten
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i can not think straight when my home is dirty.