I currently live at home with my parents and two siblings, and my house is usually pretty messy, because no one else will help clean it up. I don't like to invite friends over because of that. Also, I find that I have been feeling guilty leaving the house to sarge or something or to just hang out. My room isn't too pretty either. Isn't a clean organized house part of improving yourself? I guess the point of my question is do you guys have any suggestions about cleaning up my house so it is cooler to hang out and maybe invite girls over? I dunno, I'm pretty tired and this is just one of those things that I could improve on.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
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Um... how about... cleaning it? Maybe? :crazy:Eiljwa said:
And then keep it tidy everyday so it doesn't get like this again.
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Keeping a clean house will do so much to provide you with a positive energy.
Just spend 20 minutes a day picking-up. Once a week, throw on some headphones and spend a couple hours making it white glove ready.
Just get in the habit and after a couple months you'll enjoy it.
Just spend 20 minutes a day picking-up. Once a week, throw on some headphones and spend a couple hours making it white glove ready.
Just get in the habit and after a couple months you'll enjoy it.
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i can not think straight when my home is dirty.