I currently live at home with my parents and two siblings, and my house is usually pretty messy, because no one else will help clean it up. I don't like to invite friends over because of that. Also, I find that I have been feeling guilty leaving the house to sarge or something or to just hang out. My room isn't too pretty either. Isn't a clean organized house part of improving yourself? I guess the point of my question is do you guys have any suggestions about cleaning up my house so it is cooler to hang out and maybe invite girls over? I dunno, I'm pretty tired and this is just one of those things that I could improve on.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Cleaning the House
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Ace of Flames
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Um... how about... cleaning it? Maybe? :crazy:Eiljwa said:
And then keep it tidy everyday so it doesn't get like this again.
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Keeping a clean house will do so much to provide you with a positive energy.
Just spend 20 minutes a day picking-up. Once a week, throw on some headphones and spend a couple hours making it white glove ready.
Just get in the habit and after a couple months you'll enjoy it.
Just spend 20 minutes a day picking-up. Once a week, throw on some headphones and spend a couple hours making it white glove ready.
Just get in the habit and after a couple months you'll enjoy it.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
penkitten
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i can not think straight when my home is dirty.