"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Cities with the hottest/friendliest chicks
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
MadTyteYo!
Don Juan
I can tell you that if you have kids or want them, Louisiana (Slidell or Mandeville - each just 30 minutes from New Orleans)
would be good. In the alternative, Birningham, Alabama and Tampa, Florida are also very nice. However, the further south Florida, the more cash you'll need to compare well with the players.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
New York is also a big time hot spot but you try finding a nice pad there for cheap. Compared to the night life though, I'd pay in my own blood to live there if I could
L.A. is pretty good too but you have to do a buch of scouting to make sure you're not gonna be totally out numbered in certian areas but when you find a good place to be you're in the gold.
Two places that are over looked alot though are Kentucky and Arizona. Two states with really high level of bi sexual girls even though the bars close kind of early from time to time but if your lokking to get screwed every night by one or more hot drunk college girls I would recommend either of them.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
SeldomSeen
Senior Don Juan
Miami - Hot ass babes but you gotta have some money
LA - nice assortment of all types of women. LA isnt a place I recommend you living though. Its expensive and the traffic sucks!
Vegas - ahhhh so many women but like Miami you better be packing some dough
San Diego - Latino hotbed; awesome weather.
Chicago - lots of hot women of different varieties but too damn cold in the Winter
How about some of the smaller cities like Columbus Oh (great Midwestern babes with a good attitude) or Memphis Tn (gotta love the Southern Babes)
wolfsbaneforever
Don Juan
Don't worry BMW, they are c&*%s to Toronto men as well.
Something to do with DJ'ing perhaps?
When it's obvious from an approach chicks in most places push back no matter where you go unless they're already wanting a laugh.
Perhaps there should be more on identifying who to approach because the shotgun tactic clearly isn't popular.
I'll now get by coat for inciting AFC
DrMetallica
Master Don Juan
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I beg to differ in regards to Midwestern girls. I think Midwestern girls as a whole are the biggest bunch of delusional nut jobs I have ever met in my life. But this is just my opinion
Blue Phoenix
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You are right. I've been to some small towns and girls literally flock to you.
Craig Reeves
Master Don Juan
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I spent the first 24 years of my life living in Pittsburgh. If you mean Pittsburgh, PA, and that's the only one i know of spelled with an H, then you must be on crack.
Maybe you just mean the city itself but really the city itself isn't that big but all the surrounding metro area is pretty decent and teaming with ripe young lasses.
TonyTheTigerOI
Master Don Juan
I go to school in boston, I leave tomorrow actually, and every time Ive visited the city Ive found handfulls of gorgeous girls. And they are friendly. Sure, you have more, better looking, smoother guys to compete with... but its a #s game anyways. So if you approach more girls, you are bound to connect with a few really great catches.
My friend moved to LA, and he said its really easy to get layed. He is poor and not that attractive. Again, its a #s game... he went out two nights, approached TONS of girls, and slept with a girl from each outing.
Anyone who thinks PITT has hot girls shouldnt be alloud to reproduce. Pittsburgh CONSISTANTLY rates has having the UGLIEST college students around. Sure, there are PLENTY of 8's because its a college town... but in the two weekends I spent scouring the city (visiting colleges) I didnt see ONE gorgeous girl.
Those are the only places Ive got any input about... <shrug>
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.