"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Cities with the hottest/friendliest chicks
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
MadTyteYo!
Don Juan
I can tell you that if you have kids or want them, Louisiana (Slidell or Mandeville - each just 30 minutes from New Orleans)
would be good. In the alternative, Birningham, Alabama and Tampa, Florida are also very nice. However, the further south Florida, the more cash you'll need to compare well with the players.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
New York is also a big time hot spot but you try finding a nice pad there for cheap. Compared to the night life though, I'd pay in my own blood to live there if I could
L.A. is pretty good too but you have to do a buch of scouting to make sure you're not gonna be totally out numbered in certian areas but when you find a good place to be you're in the gold.
Two places that are over looked alot though are Kentucky and Arizona. Two states with really high level of bi sexual girls even though the bars close kind of early from time to time but if your lokking to get screwed every night by one or more hot drunk college girls I would recommend either of them.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
SeldomSeen
Senior Don Juan
Miami - Hot ass babes but you gotta have some money
LA - nice assortment of all types of women. LA isnt a place I recommend you living though. Its expensive and the traffic sucks!
Vegas - ahhhh so many women but like Miami you better be packing some dough
San Diego - Latino hotbed; awesome weather.
Chicago - lots of hot women of different varieties but too damn cold in the Winter
How about some of the smaller cities like Columbus Oh (great Midwestern babes with a good attitude) or Memphis Tn (gotta love the Southern Babes)
wolfsbaneforever
Don Juan
Don't worry BMW, they are c&*%s to Toronto men as well.
Something to do with DJ'ing perhaps?
When it's obvious from an approach chicks in most places push back no matter where you go unless they're already wanting a laugh.
Perhaps there should be more on identifying who to approach because the shotgun tactic clearly isn't popular.
I'll now get by coat for inciting AFC
DrMetallica
Master Don Juan
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I beg to differ in regards to Midwestern girls. I think Midwestern girls as a whole are the biggest bunch of delusional nut jobs I have ever met in my life. But this is just my opinion
Blue Phoenix
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You are right. I've been to some small towns and girls literally flock to you.
Craig Reeves
Master Don Juan
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I spent the first 24 years of my life living in Pittsburgh. If you mean Pittsburgh, PA, and that's the only one i know of spelled with an H, then you must be on crack.
Maybe you just mean the city itself but really the city itself isn't that big but all the surrounding metro area is pretty decent and teaming with ripe young lasses.
TonyTheTigerOI
Master Don Juan
I go to school in boston, I leave tomorrow actually, and every time Ive visited the city Ive found handfulls of gorgeous girls. And they are friendly. Sure, you have more, better looking, smoother guys to compete with... but its a #s game anyways. So if you approach more girls, you are bound to connect with a few really great catches.
My friend moved to LA, and he said its really easy to get layed. He is poor and not that attractive. Again, its a #s game... he went out two nights, approached TONS of girls, and slept with a girl from each outing.
Anyone who thinks PITT has hot girls shouldnt be alloud to reproduce. Pittsburgh CONSISTANTLY rates has having the UGLIEST college students around. Sure, there are PLENTY of 8's because its a college town... but in the two weekends I spent scouring the city (visiting colleges) I didnt see ONE gorgeous girl.
Those are the only places Ive got any input about... <shrug>
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.