"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Cities with the hottest/friendliest chicks
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
MadTyteYo!
Don Juan
I can tell you that if you have kids or want them, Louisiana (Slidell or Mandeville - each just 30 minutes from New Orleans)
would be good. In the alternative, Birningham, Alabama and Tampa, Florida are also very nice. However, the further south Florida, the more cash you'll need to compare well with the players.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
New York is also a big time hot spot but you try finding a nice pad there for cheap. Compared to the night life though, I'd pay in my own blood to live there if I could
L.A. is pretty good too but you have to do a buch of scouting to make sure you're not gonna be totally out numbered in certian areas but when you find a good place to be you're in the gold.
Two places that are over looked alot though are Kentucky and Arizona. Two states with really high level of bi sexual girls even though the bars close kind of early from time to time but if your lokking to get screwed every night by one or more hot drunk college girls I would recommend either of them.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
SeldomSeen
Senior Don Juan
Miami - Hot ass babes but you gotta have some money
LA - nice assortment of all types of women. LA isnt a place I recommend you living though. Its expensive and the traffic sucks!
Vegas - ahhhh so many women but like Miami you better be packing some dough
San Diego - Latino hotbed; awesome weather.
Chicago - lots of hot women of different varieties but too damn cold in the Winter
How about some of the smaller cities like Columbus Oh (great Midwestern babes with a good attitude) or Memphis Tn (gotta love the Southern Babes)
wolfsbaneforever
Don Juan
Don't worry BMW, they are c&*%s to Toronto men as well.
Something to do with DJ'ing perhaps?
When it's obvious from an approach chicks in most places push back no matter where you go unless they're already wanting a laugh.
Perhaps there should be more on identifying who to approach because the shotgun tactic clearly isn't popular.
I'll now get by coat for inciting AFC
DrMetallica
Master Don Juan
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I beg to differ in regards to Midwestern girls. I think Midwestern girls as a whole are the biggest bunch of delusional nut jobs I have ever met in my life. But this is just my opinion
Blue Phoenix
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You are right. I've been to some small towns and girls literally flock to you.
Craig Reeves
Master Don Juan
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I spent the first 24 years of my life living in Pittsburgh. If you mean Pittsburgh, PA, and that's the only one i know of spelled with an H, then you must be on crack.
Maybe you just mean the city itself but really the city itself isn't that big but all the surrounding metro area is pretty decent and teaming with ripe young lasses.
TonyTheTigerOI
Master Don Juan
I go to school in boston, I leave tomorrow actually, and every time Ive visited the city Ive found handfulls of gorgeous girls. And they are friendly. Sure, you have more, better looking, smoother guys to compete with... but its a #s game anyways. So if you approach more girls, you are bound to connect with a few really great catches.
My friend moved to LA, and he said its really easy to get layed. He is poor and not that attractive. Again, its a #s game... he went out two nights, approached TONS of girls, and slept with a girl from each outing.
Anyone who thinks PITT has hot girls shouldnt be alloud to reproduce. Pittsburgh CONSISTANTLY rates has having the UGLIEST college students around. Sure, there are PLENTY of 8's because its a college town... but in the two weekends I spent scouring the city (visiting colleges) I didnt see ONE gorgeous girl.
Those are the only places Ive got any input about... <shrug>
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.