"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Cities with the hottest/friendliest chicks
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
MadTyteYo!
Don Juan
I can tell you that if you have kids or want them, Louisiana (Slidell or Mandeville - each just 30 minutes from New Orleans)
would be good. In the alternative, Birningham, Alabama and Tampa, Florida are also very nice. However, the further south Florida, the more cash you'll need to compare well with the players.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
New York is also a big time hot spot but you try finding a nice pad there for cheap. Compared to the night life though, I'd pay in my own blood to live there if I could
L.A. is pretty good too but you have to do a buch of scouting to make sure you're not gonna be totally out numbered in certian areas but when you find a good place to be you're in the gold.
Two places that are over looked alot though are Kentucky and Arizona. Two states with really high level of bi sexual girls even though the bars close kind of early from time to time but if your lokking to get screwed every night by one or more hot drunk college girls I would recommend either of them.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
SeldomSeen
Senior Don Juan
Miami - Hot ass babes but you gotta have some money
LA - nice assortment of all types of women. LA isnt a place I recommend you living though. Its expensive and the traffic sucks!
Vegas - ahhhh so many women but like Miami you better be packing some dough
San Diego - Latino hotbed; awesome weather.
Chicago - lots of hot women of different varieties but too damn cold in the Winter
How about some of the smaller cities like Columbus Oh (great Midwestern babes with a good attitude) or Memphis Tn (gotta love the Southern Babes)
wolfsbaneforever
Don Juan
Don't worry BMW, they are c&*%s to Toronto men as well.
Something to do with DJ'ing perhaps?
When it's obvious from an approach chicks in most places push back no matter where you go unless they're already wanting a laugh.
Perhaps there should be more on identifying who to approach because the shotgun tactic clearly isn't popular.
I'll now get by coat for inciting AFC
DrMetallica
Master Don Juan
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I beg to differ in regards to Midwestern girls. I think Midwestern girls as a whole are the biggest bunch of delusional nut jobs I have ever met in my life. But this is just my opinion
Blue Phoenix
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You are right. I've been to some small towns and girls literally flock to you.
Craig Reeves
Master Don Juan
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I spent the first 24 years of my life living in Pittsburgh. If you mean Pittsburgh, PA, and that's the only one i know of spelled with an H, then you must be on crack.
Maybe you just mean the city itself but really the city itself isn't that big but all the surrounding metro area is pretty decent and teaming with ripe young lasses.
TonyTheTigerOI
Master Don Juan
I go to school in boston, I leave tomorrow actually, and every time Ive visited the city Ive found handfulls of gorgeous girls. And they are friendly. Sure, you have more, better looking, smoother guys to compete with... but its a #s game anyways. So if you approach more girls, you are bound to connect with a few really great catches.
My friend moved to LA, and he said its really easy to get layed. He is poor and not that attractive. Again, its a #s game... he went out two nights, approached TONS of girls, and slept with a girl from each outing.
Anyone who thinks PITT has hot girls shouldnt be alloud to reproduce. Pittsburgh CONSISTANTLY rates has having the UGLIEST college students around. Sure, there are PLENTY of 8's because its a college town... but in the two weekends I spent scouring the city (visiting colleges) I didnt see ONE gorgeous girl.
Those are the only places Ive got any input about... <shrug>
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.