"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Christmas Pu$$y

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So.... My Ex-Fiance and I still stay in touch and we exchange Christmas presents every year. Yesterday, he calls me up and says that this year since we both happen to be single, he wants sex for Christmas.... and he is SERIOUS!

I thought he was joking... but apparently not. He just sent me a photo of the lingerie he bought me for tomorrow.

Should I go through with it.. or will it f**ck up our friendship?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Why don't you stop pretending to be a woman. Women don't write or talk like you do. Don't you have something better to do with your time, bro?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You'll want to be in top form for him.

You should practice. We should practice.

Wait...you are hot, right?
 
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The question is, can you handle it? If you can handle a fling with him and still be his friend in the morning, then go for it and have fun. If you think it will stir up old feelings (and it may because he was your fiance) and mess with your head, then don't.

That's something you need to decide for yourself. Men are generally better at separating sex and feelings. Some women can do that, others, not so much.
 
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hey lisa your nose wiggles when you laugh, it's kinda cute

wanna see a magic trick?
 
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this happened to me last week. all i can say is this.

for me, i learned pretty quickly that i would be missing out of i stop contacting the girl i am friends with. i would miss her too much and it would be painful as ****. for me and her.

so instead of getting all down about it. i chose to just be happy. be happy that she wanted to do it with me. be happy that she makes me smile. if you wait it will pass you by.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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WTF is this?! I come on here for penny stock tips. Not to read this babble. Quick! Someone. Anyone. Give me a hot tip.
 
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Falcon25 said:
Why don't you stop pretending to be a woman. Women don't write or talk like you do. Don't you have something better to do with your time, bro?
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The OP merely posts here to promote the two websites listed in "her" forum signature.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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it's not a chic. it's a dude. probably some big black burly looking mofo.
 
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I dont know... Lisa hasn't signed on since Christmas eve. Maybe she's still bangin away with the ex? LOL
 
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