"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Christmas Pu$$y

lisahoney

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So.... My Ex-Fiance and I still stay in touch and we exchange Christmas presents every year. Yesterday, he calls me up and says that this year since we both happen to be single, he wants sex for Christmas.... and he is SERIOUS!

I thought he was joking... but apparently not. He just sent me a photo of the lingerie he bought me for tomorrow.

Should I go through with it.. or will it f**ck up our friendship?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Falcon25

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Why don't you stop pretending to be a woman. Women don't write or talk like you do. Don't you have something better to do with your time, bro?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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HolyG

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You'll want to be in top form for him.

You should practice. We should practice.

Wait...you are hot, right?
 

Mike32ct

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The question is, can you handle it? If you can handle a fling with him and still be his friend in the morning, then go for it and have fun. If you think it will stir up old feelings (and it may because he was your fiance) and mess with your head, then don't.

That's something you need to decide for yourself. Men are generally better at separating sex and feelings. Some women can do that, others, not so much.
 

handle

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hey lisa your nose wiggles when you laugh, it's kinda cute

wanna see a magic trick?
 

Packers2010

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this happened to me last week. all i can say is this.

for me, i learned pretty quickly that i would be missing out of i stop contacting the girl i am friends with. i would miss her too much and it would be painful as ****. for me and her.

so instead of getting all down about it. i chose to just be happy. be happy that she wanted to do it with me. be happy that she makes me smile. if you wait it will pass you by.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BigJimbo

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WTF is this?! I come on here for penny stock tips. Not to read this babble. Quick! Someone. Anyone. Give me a hot tip.
 

Yeah OK

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Falcon25 said:
Why don't you stop pretending to be a woman. Women don't write or talk like you do. Don't you have something better to do with your time, bro?
The OP merely posts here to promote the two websites listed in "her" forum signature.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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terran2k

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it's not a chic. it's a dude. probably some big black burly looking mofo.
 

Joe Stud

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I dont know... Lisa hasn't signed on since Christmas eve. Maybe she's still bangin away with the ex? LOL
 
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