"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Christmas Pu$$y

lisahoney

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So.... My Ex-Fiance and I still stay in touch and we exchange Christmas presents every year. Yesterday, he calls me up and says that this year since we both happen to be single, he wants sex for Christmas.... and he is SERIOUS!

I thought he was joking... but apparently not. He just sent me a photo of the lingerie he bought me for tomorrow.

Should I go through with it.. or will it f**ck up our friendship?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Falcon25

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Why don't you stop pretending to be a woman. Women don't write or talk like you do. Don't you have something better to do with your time, bro?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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HolyG

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You'll want to be in top form for him.

You should practice. We should practice.

Wait...you are hot, right?
 

Mike32ct

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The question is, can you handle it? If you can handle a fling with him and still be his friend in the morning, then go for it and have fun. If you think it will stir up old feelings (and it may because he was your fiance) and mess with your head, then don't.

That's something you need to decide for yourself. Men are generally better at separating sex and feelings. Some women can do that, others, not so much.
 

handle

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hey lisa your nose wiggles when you laugh, it's kinda cute

wanna see a magic trick?
 

Packers2010

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this happened to me last week. all i can say is this.

for me, i learned pretty quickly that i would be missing out of i stop contacting the girl i am friends with. i would miss her too much and it would be painful as ****. for me and her.

so instead of getting all down about it. i chose to just be happy. be happy that she wanted to do it with me. be happy that she makes me smile. if you wait it will pass you by.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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BigJimbo

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WTF is this?! I come on here for penny stock tips. Not to read this babble. Quick! Someone. Anyone. Give me a hot tip.
 

Yeah OK

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Falcon25 said:
Why don't you stop pretending to be a woman. Women don't write or talk like you do. Don't you have something better to do with your time, bro?
The OP merely posts here to promote the two websites listed in "her" forum signature.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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terran2k

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it's not a chic. it's a dude. probably some big black burly looking mofo.
 

Joe Stud

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I dont know... Lisa hasn't signed on since Christmas eve. Maybe she's still bangin away with the ex? LOL
 
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