"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Christmas Pu$$y

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So.... My Ex-Fiance and I still stay in touch and we exchange Christmas presents every year. Yesterday, he calls me up and says that this year since we both happen to be single, he wants sex for Christmas.... and he is SERIOUS!

I thought he was joking... but apparently not. He just sent me a photo of the lingerie he bought me for tomorrow.

Should I go through with it.. or will it f**ck up our friendship?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why don't you stop pretending to be a woman. Women don't write or talk like you do. Don't you have something better to do with your time, bro?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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HolyG

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You'll want to be in top form for him.

You should practice. We should practice.

Wait...you are hot, right?
 
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The question is, can you handle it? If you can handle a fling with him and still be his friend in the morning, then go for it and have fun. If you think it will stir up old feelings (and it may because he was your fiance) and mess with your head, then don't.

That's something you need to decide for yourself. Men are generally better at separating sex and feelings. Some women can do that, others, not so much.
 
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handle

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hey lisa your nose wiggles when you laugh, it's kinda cute

wanna see a magic trick?
 
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this happened to me last week. all i can say is this.

for me, i learned pretty quickly that i would be missing out of i stop contacting the girl i am friends with. i would miss her too much and it would be painful as ****. for me and her.

so instead of getting all down about it. i chose to just be happy. be happy that she wanted to do it with me. be happy that she makes me smile. if you wait it will pass you by.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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BigJimbo

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WTF is this?! I come on here for penny stock tips. Not to read this babble. Quick! Someone. Anyone. Give me a hot tip.
 
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Falcon25 said:
Why don't you stop pretending to be a woman. Women don't write or talk like you do. Don't you have something better to do with your time, bro?
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The OP merely posts here to promote the two websites listed in "her" forum signature.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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terran2k

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it's not a chic. it's a dude. probably some big black burly looking mofo.
 
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Joe Stud

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I dont know... Lisa hasn't signed on since Christmas eve. Maybe she's still bangin away with the ex? LOL
 
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