Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Actually, he is rumored to have a big one.~attrACTION~ said:Wow. He must have a 12" penis or something.
Most of these beat producers are Black dudes...but Jordan hung out in this same crowd. That's how Xtina met him and got sprung on his dong. Sure, he's not good-looking or extremely high-status...but he's got enough combined to pwn her. And he's probably richer than he looks too - Jewish and with a production gig? Sounds like a silverspoon "job" bankrolled by some very rich rents...Grammy award winning songwriter and producer Dallas Austin is the subject of an explosive video interview where he accuses Christina Aguilera and British soul singer Joss Stone of providing sexual favors in exchange for production work on their CDs.
"Christina Aguilera, Joss Stone... all these biches be fvckin' for tracks," Austin says in the video. "You go in the studio with the regular girls like Ciara and them, they just want to get their work done. Fvck all these biches fvckin' for tracks."
In the video, Austin further explains in explicit detail the accounts of Aguilera having sex with both him and his best friend.
Austin, who has penned and produced award-winning songs for TLC, Madonna, Monica, Kelis, Gwen Stefani and Janet Jackson, among others, is responding to articles appearing on the internet where Stone's relationship with collaborator, Raphael Saadiq, became a public affair.
As previously reported by SOHH, Stone teamed with Saadiq as the main collaborator on her forthcoming CD Introducing Joss Stone due out March 20 via Virgin Records.
I totally beleive everything you say here man. Youre right on point.wayword said:Actually, he is rumored to have a big one.
She's just like Britney. All lookin' for a bad boy with some quality dik.
I made this point before. That's what all these young alpha girls want. Ideally - a good-looking, high-status guy with a big whopper. How do you think Wilmer Valderrama laid so many MAXIM hotties? He admitted his dik is just over 8"!
Look, these hors are all fvcking the same guys from the same circles.
Most of these beat producers are Black dudes...but Jordan hung out in this same crowd. That's how Xtina met him and got sprung on his dong. Sure, he's not good-looking or extremely high-status...but he's got enough combined to pwn her. And he's probably richer than he looks too - Jewish and with a production gig? Sounds like a silverspoon "job" bankrolled by some very rich rents...
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
lol, Deus, wheres your credibility? your implying you see this all the time, another lie of yours, just like your pollDeus ex Pianoforte said:A spectacle to YOU. This is just another random couple to me. Life is good post-enlightenment.
um, the looks matter theory predicts that some ugly men will be with hot women, but they will be a minority. ie. rare. Is that not what this thread is all about, a rare spectacle people are trying to decipher? :yes: sounds to me exactly what a looks matter theory would predict, so yes, it is consistent with the theory, and nothing inconsistent with it.Course you don't. You've completely blocked off your mind to anything that might suggest that men have the potential to get any women they want, to the point that you refuse to have a logical argument.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
No, they have a happy marriage and have had so for many years now. THAT takes a man, FAR MORE than just being "seen" with a celebrity. She fell in love with him, not just wanted him because he was "the latest craze" like Ashton Kutcher or whatever his name is. Trust me, I know more about this relationship than your internet sites and tabloids.Espi said:Funny how a rich man (likely inherited) is suddely viewed manfully legit when seen with a celebrity.
deus...Deus ex Pianoforte said:Only when they're not arguing in and creating threads devoted to trying to convince everyone else that looks matter.![]()
DJDamage said:Why all the hate? good for him. Now stop worrying about his game and concentrate on yours.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.