You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Actually, he is rumored to have a big one.~attrACTION~ said:Wow. He must have a 12" penis or something.
Most of these beat producers are Black dudes...but Jordan hung out in this same crowd. That's how Xtina met him and got sprung on his dong. Sure, he's not good-looking or extremely high-status...but he's got enough combined to pwn her. And he's probably richer than he looks too - Jewish and with a production gig? Sounds like a silverspoon "job" bankrolled by some very rich rents...Grammy award winning songwriter and producer Dallas Austin is the subject of an explosive video interview where he accuses Christina Aguilera and British soul singer Joss Stone of providing sexual favors in exchange for production work on their CDs.
"Christina Aguilera, Joss Stone... all these biches be fvckin' for tracks," Austin says in the video. "You go in the studio with the regular girls like Ciara and them, they just want to get their work done. Fvck all these biches fvckin' for tracks."
In the video, Austin further explains in explicit detail the accounts of Aguilera having sex with both him and his best friend.
Austin, who has penned and produced award-winning songs for TLC, Madonna, Monica, Kelis, Gwen Stefani and Janet Jackson, among others, is responding to articles appearing on the internet where Stone's relationship with collaborator, Raphael Saadiq, became a public affair.
As previously reported by SOHH, Stone teamed with Saadiq as the main collaborator on her forthcoming CD Introducing Joss Stone due out March 20 via Virgin Records.
I totally beleive everything you say here man. Youre right on point.wayword said:Actually, he is rumored to have a big one.
She's just like Britney. All lookin' for a bad boy with some quality dik.
I made this point before. That's what all these young alpha girls want. Ideally - a good-looking, high-status guy with a big whopper. How do you think Wilmer Valderrama laid so many MAXIM hotties? He admitted his dik is just over 8"!
Look, these hors are all fvcking the same guys from the same circles.
Most of these beat producers are Black dudes...but Jordan hung out in this same crowd. That's how Xtina met him and got sprung on his dong. Sure, he's not good-looking or extremely high-status...but he's got enough combined to pwn her. And he's probably richer than he looks too - Jewish and with a production gig? Sounds like a silverspoon "job" bankrolled by some very rich rents...
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
lol, Deus, wheres your credibility? your implying you see this all the time, another lie of yours, just like your pollDeus ex Pianoforte said:A spectacle to YOU. This is just another random couple to me. Life is good post-enlightenment.
um, the looks matter theory predicts that some ugly men will be with hot women, but they will be a minority. ie. rare. Is that not what this thread is all about, a rare spectacle people are trying to decipher? :yes: sounds to me exactly what a looks matter theory would predict, so yes, it is consistent with the theory, and nothing inconsistent with it.Course you don't. You've completely blocked off your mind to anything that might suggest that men have the potential to get any women they want, to the point that you refuse to have a logical argument.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
No, they have a happy marriage and have had so for many years now. THAT takes a man, FAR MORE than just being "seen" with a celebrity. She fell in love with him, not just wanted him because he was "the latest craze" like Ashton Kutcher or whatever his name is. Trust me, I know more about this relationship than your internet sites and tabloids.Espi said:Funny how a rich man (likely inherited) is suddely viewed manfully legit when seen with a celebrity.
deus...Deus ex Pianoforte said:Only when they're not arguing in and creating threads devoted to trying to convince everyone else that looks matter.![]()
DJDamage said:Why all the hate? good for him. Now stop worrying about his game and concentrate on yours.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.