"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A 40 yr. old?

Cripes man, she'll deteriorate so quick you won't believe what happened !! Why, when you can get way younger? At that age only one thing is on their mind, and it aint sex. I'm puzzled why youre interested, unless your just in it for the experience .. but shields up ma boy.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Actually, women at that age have higher sex drives than they did in their twenties.
 

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Had that happen to me, several times. Must be my side interests which certainly promote a fair amount of atheism.

"The creator does not answer."
Vger---Star Trek the motion picture.
 

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Originally posted by dietzcoi
I agree with Francisco

Anybody who identifies themself forst and foremost with a group is already dangerously close to being a fanatic... unless you are also a fanatic of that group, you will have nothing but trouble.

Normal people do not identify themselves as "A CHRISTIAN Woman".. only the real fanatical born-again types do that. THe rest of us nominal christians would never describe ourselves in that way.

Dietzcoi
Agreed. This turns into nothing more than a vicious cycle of limited self identity.

"What is Vger?"
"Vger is that which seeks the creator"
"And What is the Creator?"
"The creator is that which made Vger."
Star Trek the motion picture.
 

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I must agree with the minority here.She may or may not be a fanatic,but you'll never know unless you go out with here.Be clear about your intentions and belief and be up front with her and set your guide rules early.Just say,"Hey look,I like you and we can go out and see what happens,but I'll let you know right out,I'm not attending church or anything that happens to be based on religion".
Contrary to some of the earlier posts some of Xian women are wild underneath.My parents were well known Gospel singers on TV in a small southern town and they played many local churches.I've know women who may be on their knees Sunday in church praying,while on Saturday night they were on their knees elsewhere with me doing something else!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I would think a Christian girl will squirm as well as any other
so I would pursue her because breaking her down will be all
the more fun. Expose a little of the hypocrisy to sunlight.....

mike
 

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Originally posted by persistent exaction
I would think a Christian girl will squirm as well as any other
so I would pursue her because breaking her down will be all
the more fun. Expose a little of the hypocrisy to sunlight.....

mike
Thank you.In the struggle between the carnal and the spiritual,the carnal will always will out.I say nail her under tha auspice of Bible study at her house.Make her speak in tongues!
 
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