"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Chris' Fitness Book

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Morning: 2 leisurely 10 min walks to meeting and back

Afternoon: 1.25 hour road bike ride with three 3 min breaks.
5°C weather with approx 45 km/hr headwind for last halfhour of ride (smh, of course...I loved the challenge, I didn't slow effort or change gears on purpose to really skyrocket my heartrate-unknown)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Afternoon: Two 15 min bikerides. I half hour walk
Evening: Two 25 min walks
 

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Before work: Powerwalk so fast I sweat for 24 min.
Climbing and powerwalking first work quarter.
I'm doing well first day back after 6 weeks off. Work Brothers are impressed.
 

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Later same day: 6 more hours minus breaks of powerwalking and climbing at work
19 min speed powerwalking after work plus 2 x 10 min leisurely walks in the evening
 

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One 10 min walk before work + 8 hours powerwalking in slushy/icy snow and climbing.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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One 10 min walk before work + 8 hours powerwalking in slushy/icy snow and climbing.
Bewildered: Can you elaborate some? Hard to comprehend the torture! What's the motivation? Getting Married?
 

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Bewildered: Can you elaborate some? Hard to comprehend the torture! What's the motivation? Getting Married?
I'm trying to become fit.

My only motivation is a return to the old Christie from 15 years ago, that level of health and beyond because I used to smoke back then.

And I don't now.
Thanks for asking.



This morning: 15 min fast walk
8 hours powerwalking and climbing
After work: 35 min steady walk with about 75 yard jog to catch a bus
I still have a leisurely 10 min walk ahead of me before home.
 

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My only motivation is a return to the old Christie from 15 years ago, that level of health and beyond
Well I promise you, I know that kind of dedication. And it says what you're made of. I salute you.
Please don't pull a hammy ;)
 

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Well I promise you, I know that kind of dedication. And it says what you're made of. I salute you.
Please don't pull a hammy ;)
So far so good, feels great to be doing this volume of activity again
 

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@christie thank you for sharing your daily commitment(s) toward being fit. Cold weather, COVID, long day of work...despite all, you seem to be finding some really cool ways to go about accomplishing your goal.

Wishing you continued passion and strength as you embark on your goal. I'm reading.
Thank you for letting me copy your idea and thank you for your energising words.
And I'm still eager to add lifting weights now that I can, but I'm saving all energy reserves for work rn.

Your nice words are money on this 4th day of work back. Thank you sincerely.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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35 +23+10+25=93 min steady walking
8 hours powerwalking and climbing
10 min bikeride

muscles have tightened up internally-a feeling of being stitched or fused together
Doesn't hurt to sit or lay down.

I have a constant rosy glow with buffed/polished looking 22 year old face skin. Apparently, my circulation is excellent.
Not tempted to get on scale until at least the same amount of time has passed, as the 6 weeks I was off work. So before May I'll weigh in.
 

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Friday: 23 min brisk walk plus regular workday efforts

Saturday: over 2 hour bikeride and about 1.5 hrs walking the bike when out of steam.
 

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Monday: 1.25 hours steady bikeride, 2 minute water break
regular workday efforts and then there will be a 23 min walk with 10 min bikeride after work
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Thanks, there's failures...quite a few of them, but I don't write them here. (So tired I walk funny at the end of my days) Only demoralises me. I'd rather collect the wins.

Thanks for reading and commenting. You understand the power of simple positivity and optimism.
 

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It's my opinion you're pushing too hard, but I commend you. Also I'm only doing 15% of your output so who am I to judge. Give this stuff a try please. ((Tailwind Endurance fuel)) "It's not Gatorade".. I get it at Imtbtrails Mtn bike forum.
Mikie the web owner sells it. Or go to Tailwind. Yer an animal
 

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It's my opinion you're pushing too hard, but I commend you. Also I'm only doing 15% of your output so who am I to judge. Give this stuff a try please. ((Tailwind Endurance fuel)) "It's not Gatorade".. I get it at Imtbtrails Mtn bike forum.
Mikie the web owner sells it. Or go to Tailwind. Yer an animal
I'll have a look.

Sounds like a cool forum. Always wear your helmet mountain biking. My cousin's brotherinlaw went head over handlebars and became paralysed.

Yer an animal too because like recognises like.

If you want to do more, believe you can do it, you've got the support here.
 

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work(delivery day success-no need for work brothers to stay OT to make up for my weakness coming back to work, like they did last Wed and Fri delivery days)

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30 min fast walk, with no need for 75 yard jog to catch that bus. I had to stand and wait for the first time since my walking speed improved.

Exhausted now. Can't wait 'til Fri.....first full pay since Jan 29.

Will get full, balanced grocery load this weekend. I will recover faster with more food.
 

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20 + 20 + 20=60 min steady walks plus 8 hour(6.75 hr)work duties.
Passed out early evening and feel rested by middle of night. Hungry too. Will have tuna and mayo and sweet potato and defrosted broccoli and a decaf with almond milk then huge bowl of oatmeal before I leave.

The first warm-ish day of the year.
I will try biking in a tshirt this weekend finally.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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