nicksaiz65
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Answered my own question. Forget this thread, mods if you're reading this can you delete it?
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Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I just figured it doesn't matter... the only way to tell is to escalate to sex and see how she reacts.It must have been the latter.
Out here dating but these hoes love to play games. One day I'll play them allGet some more experience with women.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You HAVE to run game on them. The game could be one ho positioned as "gf" that you cheat on with the others.Out here dating but these hoes love to play games. One day I'll play them all
What do you mean by standard default?For some men, there is a time for gaming ‘hoes.’ I understand that.
I get you are young, eagerly learning and improving with every interaction @nicksaiz65. Your comfort and confidence will grow. Be careful not to let gaming/dating of ‘hoes,’ to become your standard default or comfort level. Once your almost ok there, do not settle, keep going. You deserve more than hoes! Push yourself to level up again! Your skills and confidence will grow to accommodate that next level too.
+1Get some more experience with women.
Bitter words from a low smv guy.Out here dating but these hoes love to play games. One day I'll play them all
Or just a statement that my SMV will raise and I'll win in the endBitter words from a low smv guy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
+1Bitter words from a low smv guy.
Get better not bitter. - JulienOut here dating but these hoes love to play games. One day I'll play them all
I like it. It's just hard not to be angry when I got played so hard as a Blue Pill Guy y'know?+1
Get better not bitter. - Julien
Cant be. The anger means your still focused on that and you will attract more of the same.I like it. It's just hard not to be angry when I got played so hard as a Blue Pill Guy y'know?
I like it. It's just hard not to be angry when I got played so hard as a Blue Pill Guy y'know?
Anger.Out here dating but these hoes love to play games. One day I'll play them all
I would NEVER, I'll be an incel for life before I'd do anything like that.Anger.
Revenge.
Rape.
You are getting closer and closer to Elliot Rodger territory.
"The day in which I will have my revenge against humanity."
"For the last 8 years of my life, ever since I hit puberty, I've been forced to endure an existence of loneliness, rejection, and unfulfilled desires, all because girls have never been attracted to me."
"You girls have never been attracted to me, and I will punish you all for it."
http://digg.com/video/elliot-rodger-video
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Thats jumping to extreme from Nick many post ive read this is not his attitude.Anger.
Revenge.
Rape.
You are getting closer and closer to Elliot Rodger territory.
"The day in which I will have my revenge against humanity."
"For the last 8 years of my life, ever since I hit puberty, I've been forced to endure an existence of loneliness, rejection, and unfulfilled desires, all because girls have never been attracted to me."
"You girls have never been attracted to me, and I will punish you all for it."
http://digg.com/video/elliot-rodger-video
Thank you friendThats jumping to extreme from Nick many post ive read this is not his attitude.
Nick mate, the process of DJ, pickup, playboy (thereafter) is a by product of self-awareness. Unplugging from the matrix. Taking the red pill is a natural way to transcend but, as is the case for being forged in the fire.I like it. It's just hard not to be angry when I got played so hard as a Blue Pill Guy y'know?
Or just get a gf.Nick mate, the process of DJ, pickup, playboy (thereafter) is a by product of self-awareness. Unplugging from the matrix. Taking the red pill is a natural way to transcend but, as is the case for being forged in the fire.
I am truly disgusted by western women, cratered SMV, single moms, victimhood, and most (if not all) married women. The probability of cratered SMV is empowering lulz seemingly is the mindset of all Western women and when the wall hits or as the epiphany phase kicks off, playboy stops calling, its then hee hedging her bet. She cannot compete for alpha and playboy nor optomise her ****ty hypergamy so, you need to man up. She found God. Isn't in the mood and raise her bastard children.
Enjoy the decline. Watch sone goggins motivation and read his book. Its fire. Learn to enjoy the demise, suffering, rejection, flaking, pulling, ghosting, skull ****ing, nutting on her face, and going out to get more girls. The alternative is phaggotry playing house with cratered SMV.
Adopt bachelor lifestyle. Acknowledge your freedom as a single man. Have choice. Pull girls but moreover, have a life. Travel. Get some world experience. Explore consciousness. Seek self knowledge. Be the strongest version of yourself. The benchmark is self actualization.
No bigger obstacle then your bitter self. You will sepf sabotage and it will bleed into other areas of your life. Its why rsd Tyler and others recommended meditation. I smoke dmt. I do ayahuasca. I trip ****ing balls. Its a reset. Read the yoga sutras.
Allocate time wisely. I'm not saying a lot of women don't suck. I am saying bitterness eill suffocate you.
Wrong wrong mindset. What are you actively doing to take your life back?I would NEVER, I'll be an incel for life before I'd do anything like that.
Literally all I'm saying is I'm learning Game to take back what's mine and so I can't get jerked around anymore. I'm taking my life back too. Nothing more, nothing less.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.