"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Choose the Right Victim
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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Two points now occur:
-Much of the in-fighting here arises as result the differing considerations required of casual hook-ups and LTRs.
-Neil is talking about LTRs, LTRs being something that some men completely dismiss because, (a) they've been burned and are still butthurt, viewing all women as the evil storybook villain and, (b), they haven't actually thought (much) about what they would want from a woman in the long term, outside the archetypal fairytale princess who doesn't fcking exist anyway; therefore wouldn't be able to identify a good woman if one walked up to them, got down on her knee and put their junk straight in her mouth.
Lets see if you're still saying this in 5 years. I doubt it.
You seem too desperate to me. I can't picture you keeping the upper hand in your relationship for more than a short period of time.
The Art of Seduction doesn't say anything about keeping people long-term. In fact, it talks about how easily the seduction can fall apart.
What a ridiculous, loser attitude. Wait, you're the one who never made it to one year in any relationship, right? I've known this girl 14 months and last night she said she loved me way back when we first met. I'm doing something right.
So now if SS members get the hottest girl they ever saw for a long term relationship (> 3 months, not 60 months, this isn't your Hyundai lease), they have to stay together longer than the average US marriage for it to count? This is a common disinformation tactic: demand impossible standards. Go back to advising men on how to get phone numbers.
It's already been the greatest romantic experience of my life, no thanks to the whiners who have insisted I must be paying for it, that strippers will never love you, and that something bad will happen if you date girls 25 years younger who are in their prime.
Wait, you never read Art of Seduction by Robert Greene? Chapter 1 is called "Choose the right victim". How am I the victim? The victim of lots of sex for months with a girl I love? Talk about hater.
Then again, she is a master seducer too, so I am a victim of her seduction per Robert Greene. We both seduced each other perfectly, hence we are madly in love. I asked last night "Do you like me more now than our love at first sight moment?" and she said "I like you WAY more now". Later she said "You give me space".
She has initiated texts 11 times in the past 2 weeks, including 5 straight days, while I have initiated 0. Tell me what is wrong again?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Okay, but Robert Greene is an idiot.
I'd like to see someone quote themselves being right about something before it happened. Advice has been doom and gloom. Dump her. She's a ho. She's crazy. You must be paying. Meanwhile it's been the best romance of my life.
And wait, she's a ho because she's a stripper? She started talking about a commitment. Readers know I would never bring up such a topic. Note that I met her before she became a stripper, so this whole "you can't turn a ho into a housewife" nonsense doesn't apply. I met her when she was a 20 year old waitress. You think it's easier to get a 35 year old (you hope) non-stripper to be faithful??
This is what members can look forward to when they finally get the girl they always wanted: denial, dismissal and doomsayers.
I still hope these guys find their dream girl someday. I've laid the blueprint here, pardon the pun.
"Mistake! You should always let women do 70% to 80% of the pursuing. Now as you chase more, she will start to chase less." - Coach Corey Wayne
I had the "best romance of my life" for almost 3 years. Guess what. Still single! You're not some magical prince that she'll never abandon. Hope you're mentally prepared for when that happens. I wasn't.
LOL
That's a good thing. You should celebrate. That's longer than any of my relationships (2.5 years was my record). You are saying that because it didn't last forever you failed? I've found that each relationship I have becomes more meaningful because I don't repeat past mistakes. Members can't believe it, but I'm simply at the master level with this girl. She would be the first to tell you that.
The best you can be is her best option. Don't rely on her being faithful, or "good" if you aren't her best option. By definition of better, she will leave you for someone better if that person is available to her. She describes me as irreplaceable, and one in a million. And she should. I'm in the 99 percentile of income, height, IQ and penis size. And I love her the most. Describe a better man than me.
Oh and get this: on our last date when she confessed her love more than ever, she paid for everything. I told her she had to prove herself and the people who say it's all about money. She took great pride in paying.
Having a girl lie and say she loves you is still not a bad thing if backed up with sex.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.