"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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China Lockdowns

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These lockdowns in China are downright scary. I doubt we have anyone from China on this board as they have severely censored services over there.

huge Cities are like ghost towns. Can’t get food for weeks at a time. People going mad In the streets and beaten/arrested. Sad, sad times.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Good thing I live in a non communist society here in America.
 

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These lockdowns in China are downright scary. I doubt we have anyone from China on this board as they have severely censored services over there.

huge Cities are like ghost towns. Can’t get food for weeks at a time. People going mad In the streets and beaten/arrested. Sad, sad times.
In my opinion, the CCP is getting ready for societal collapse if global trade gets disrupted enough. The pandemic is a practice run.
 

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These lockdowns in China are downright scary. I doubt we have anyone from China on this board as they have severely censored services over there.

huge Cities are like ghost towns. Can’t get food for weeks at a time. People going mad In the streets and beaten/arrested. Sad, sad times.
This is what happens when you cram millions of people into one place that can't grow any food whatsoever and then impose lockdowns that don't solve any problems.

Commies are more interested in keeping people under control than they are in those people's well-being.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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China is killing two birds (maybe three) with one stone.

1) They are worried about riots based on collapsing real estate prices. This is a warning to the citizens to stay in their lanes and not get uppity.

2) The real reason is economic warfare against the west. Shanghai is China's biggest port. Nobody going to work because everybody's starving to death in their apartments. This is essentially China stopping trade with the West under covid-plausible deniability.

3) This is also a potential Keyser Söze move, demonstrating how ruthless they can be (starving their own people) if any east-west war goes kinetic.

These dudes (or that culture, not the current ChiComs) wrote the book on long game way back in the B.C.
 

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Hi So Suave,
Don't fret I am sure these are isolated incidents...My principal Love interest has a Brother and three friends in Shanghai,she is in contact with all of them on a regular basis...They are doing OK not even grumbling...The Chinese have a different mindset to us...They knuckle under without complaint.
 

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Hi So Suave,
Don't fret I am sure these are isolated incidents...My principal Love interest has a Brother and three friends in Shanghai,she is in contact with all of them on a regular basis...They are doing OK not even grumbling...The Chinese have a different mindset to us...They knuckle under without complaint.
Not what I've seen on videos of people in the streets flipping out and people screaming from their apartment windows in unison and being told by a robot drone to "please stop and to go back inside" which reminds me of 1984
 

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Not what I've seen on videos of people in the streets flipping out and people screaming from their apartment windows in unison and being told by a robot drone to "please stop and to go back inside" which reminds me of 1984
A lot of these people are paid, professional rioters/protesters. The media has an incentive to keep people frantic.
 

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A lot of these people are paid, professional rioters/protesters. The media has an incentive to keep people frantic.
C'mon man. Give it a rest. The video was taken by a Chinese woman who sent it to her brother who lives in Canada because he didn't believe what she was telling him. Pretty sure nobody paid thousands of people to be in huge highrise apartments and all yell out their window at the same time.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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C'mon man. Give it a rest. The video was taken by a Chinese woman who sent it to her brother who lives in Canada because he didn't believe what she was telling him. Pretty sure nobody paid thousands of people to be in huge highrise apartments and all yell out their window at the same time.
You don't have to be paid to be a zealot to a religion or political regime. History has enough evidence of that group think mentality. And we're also on SS, a place where we already have confirmed that women are the easiest gender to indoctrinate. That is why they are always at the forefront of every communist movement. Btw, I came from a college with international students. The chinese are 100% very politically indoctrinated.
 

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Hi Haley,
Yes you are right about Chinese Women....every little block of units or apartments has its own neighborhood watch leader,a cadre,they are always Women appointed by the local Party and are regular little Busy Bodies....Every Household has a little book in which visitors who stay over will have to enter their details,in the morning the book must be trotted down to the Police Station to be vetted by the Gendarmes...Should a Westerner drop in from time to time the cadre pops around for a little chat....Yeah all rather oppressive to us but reflect,China has never been a free Society...Ever!...The Emperors and War lords were just as autocratic.
 
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